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Old 07-12-2015, 01:23 PM
 
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By homewrecker, I mean someone who constantly and deliberately hooks up with people in relationships as opposed to someone who's been fooled by by the people they're with (being lied to about them being in a relationship) multiple times. Someone that actively targets and tries to seduce people in established relationships. People who do it because they get a rise of the twisted sense of power, domination, and validation of having people in established relationships risk it all for a night with the homewrecker.
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Old 07-12-2015, 01:39 PM
 
Location: Sugarmill Woods , FL
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For some it is just like any other hobby.
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Old 07-12-2015, 08:54 PM
 
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I've run across a few...Their victims deserve what they get though.
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Old 07-12-2015, 09:12 PM
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I was in a woman's Bible Study once & we discussed this topic.

Typically, these women grow to be lonely & miserable with their lives. You can't trust a known homewrecker with their seductive powers.
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Old 07-12-2015, 10:38 PM
 
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They dont deal with the destruction, they get off on creating drama and ruining lives. They thrive on destruction.
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Old 07-12-2015, 11:06 PM
 
Location: Copenhagen, Denmark
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Often, the people doing this are simply picking impossible people because sub-consciously they are terrified by being in a relationship. It's a contradiction that such people are totally unaware of. The motives of people that suffer from this fear are not vicious. They have zero insight into their own behavior, which is often self-destructive.
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Old 07-12-2015, 11:08 PM
 
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Often, the people doing this are simply picking impossible people because sub-consciously they are terrified by being in a relationship. It's a contradiction that such people are totally unaware of. The motives of these people are not vicious.
They are viscious in my opinion. They are responsible for ruining families. They know what they are doing, but simply dont care.
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Old 07-13-2015, 06:20 AM
 
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A wh*re is a wh*re is a wh*re......

I know way more married serial cheaters that are constantly trying to entice
single people than homewreckers.
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Old 07-13-2015, 06:32 AM
 
Location: MA
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Doesn't the other party have to be somewhat willing? It takes two you know so we can't place all the blame on the homewrecker and it appears we are putting it on the woman in this thread for whatever reason.
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Old 07-13-2015, 07:06 AM
 
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Doesn't the other party have to be somewhat willing? It takes two you know so we can't place all the blame on the homewrecker and it appears we are putting it on the woman in this thread for whatever reason.
Sure, but the OP didn't call out women. Men can be homewreckers too. There are a few guys here who gloat about having flings with married women and what chumps their husbands are. I think for some, the thrill comes from a sense of power and irresistibility. I knew a girl in high school who said to me, "I could have any guy at this school I wanted." Oookay then!
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