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Old 07-24-2015, 07:11 PM
 
Location: East coast-New England
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Woman here. And I would feel weird if I were in a substantial dating relationship and never met the guy's friends

Just being introduced is one thing. They don't need to tag along on dates though. Hanging out in group settings are fine.
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Old 07-24-2015, 10:41 PM
 
Location: Tampa (by way of Omaha)
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Date or girlfriends
I personally perfer not to
At least not at first i had some cases in the past where some of my guy friends would be trying to make me look bad just so they can get a quick fling from my dates and to overshadow me it didnt work so well and after my date confessed i never spoke to that chump ever again ( two of them)
Only happen twice thou
Unless we have a double then yea ifs its just my guy friend himself i wont take him because he would feel like a third wheel
Family thou yes my mom and dad have met some of my dates
Family gatherings have always been good
Most any girl I'm dating in a serious manner is going to meet my friends. Those guys would not try to pull stunts like that because they are good dudes. Conversely, the lower tier friends or acquaintances that would pull **** like that or act like creepers, usually don't get brought around the girls.
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Old 07-24-2015, 11:20 PM
 
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If my friends pulled that they would no longer be my friends.
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Old 07-25-2015, 08:40 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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I introduced my girlfriend to my friends a few days ago. They like her compared to my ex's.
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Old 07-25-2015, 09:55 AM
 
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At some point, you have to. If she lasts a few months and has staying power, yes introduce her to your friends.
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Old 07-25-2015, 10:04 AM
 
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I introduced my girlfriend to my friends a few days ago. They like her compared to my ex's.
My friends accidentally met my boyfriend.
They called him sasqush and munchkin.
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Old 07-25-2015, 10:08 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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Not sure what why this is a question?? if you love someone and want them in your life, why fuss with thing????
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Old 07-25-2015, 10:11 AM
 
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Not sure what why this is a question?? if you love someone and want them in your life, why fuss with thing????
Some really care about what people think.
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Old 07-25-2015, 10:16 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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Some really care about what people think.
This is the difference between a man that is 45 and someone 20.......

Grow a backbone and stand up for you what you believe... not "you" specifically..... just generically speaking......... be a man or woman and have a set... if you love someone there isn't need to hide them...

If you have to hide them... you might as well hide yourself... cause you aint living your life.....

Be true to yourself or go the F home.......
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Old 07-25-2015, 10:31 AM
 
Location: Northville, MI
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I've had guys take me to meet their friends at the beginning of dating, and as a GF. If a guy hit on your GF, he is no friend. That's pretty much man code.
Hey lady, our man code is none of your business, got that. Now turn around and walk away.

Holy jesus, this is like guys talking about woman's makeup.
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