If' you're single, why are you single? (dating, girlfriends, woman)
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Choosing wrong people and having an idea how things should be and imposing that on them. Better to choose someone like yourself so you don't feel the need to tell them how to be. I have not found that person, to my knowledge, while I have men around me who are more similar to myself, I don't feel attracted to them as much as I should to pursue a relationship. Hopefully I'll get with my match soon.
Last edited by lastwomanstanding; 07-27-2015 at 12:21 PM..
Reason: To add after reading other responses to the OP, I thought is was a good question, though IRL an awkward one.
1. Bad timing - met somebody right before moving (my move or theirs).
2. Wasn't looking - doing the single thing by choice.
3. Took self off market because hung up on someone unavailable and wasn't interested in anybody but that person.
4. Lived in low-population place with unappealing choices.
5. Got dumped, took time to recuperate, avoided rebounding.
Because God is waiting for the right time to send someone. He seems to like keeping me in suspense, lol. I cannot wait to see who He brings, I know he's going to be awesome!
I go back and forth between wanting to be single and a relationship.
I enjoy being single and the freedom and flexibility is gives me. I can get laid if I want to, though not reliably regularly. But I basically enjoy being single.
Often I would want to be in a relationship. But some times it concerns me about the lack of compatibility, the compromise, the lack of freedom, being manipulated and controlled. Even more, having to deal with a broader context of their friends and family. It is quite stressful.
I would do a relationship where I am very compatible with the person. Personality goes along well. Sex is great. And life isn't full of drama.
According to City Data, I have a beard so that makes one utterly repulsive.
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