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Old 07-27-2015, 07:17 AM
 
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Like change your work schedule so you don't run into that person or something in that matter? If so, why? Is it the embarrassnent?
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Old 07-27-2015, 07:36 AM
 
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Depends how it went down... If it was a just a simple "no thanks" when I asked about a date, I wouldn't care.

If it was some high drama affair involving friends, being led on, and a healthy dose of disrespect, then yeah I might do some things to avoid that person.
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Old 07-27-2015, 07:48 AM
 
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No. You need to get over the embarrassment and go about your business.
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Old 07-27-2015, 09:37 AM
 
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Never really been rejected, but then I don't put myself out there for it--it's usually women approaching me, 75% the type I'm not interested in. In that case, it's me doing the (light) rejecting. I only completely ignore the woman if she's persistent. Ignoring them does the trick.

If I were to get rejected I'd still go about my daily routine, be it at work or wherever--I just simply would not engage the person unless work-related. Far too many women seem to get off on 'rejecting' someone and then waiting for that person to pursue, which I never would.
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Old 07-27-2015, 09:45 AM
 
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eh, rejection is part of life and no big deal if one is mature enough to know that at some point they will be rejected more than once for many different things and many different reasons.
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Old 07-27-2015, 09:47 AM
 
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Never really been rejected, but then I don't put myself out there for it--it's usually women approaching me, 75% the type I'm not interested in. In that case, it's me doing the (light) rejecting. I only completely ignore the woman if she's persistent. Ignoring them does the trick.

If I were to get rejected I'd still go about my daily routine, be it at work or wherever--I just simply would not engage the person unless work-related. Far too many women seem to get off on 'rejecting' someone and then waiting for that person to pursue, which I never would.


Exactly No one really cares
Its not going to change nothing I just simply am not going to talk to that woman unless work related
Just find a woman thats not going to reject you and push all other people out
simple
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Old 07-27-2015, 10:20 AM
 
Location: Virginia
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Like change your work schedule so you don't run into that person or something in that matter? If so, why? Is it the embarrassnent?
I probably would especially if we are talking about a person for whom you have serious romantic feelings. I mean why torture yourself by running into that person regularly especially risking the posibility of seeing them with someone else, what is the point of that? How does that benefit you? I think it is better to pull away.
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Old 07-27-2015, 10:29 AM
 
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Why would you avoid that person? Just carry on as normal. approaching those of opposite sex, as well as rejection are natural parts of life for every human being.
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Old 07-27-2015, 10:40 AM
 
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Like change your work schedule so you don't run into that person or something in that matter? If so, why? Is it the embarrassnent?
My preference is to not be around her if I can but I'm not going to rearrange my schedule or life just because she said no. I also would not talk to her unless she talks first or do any social media interaction. A woman only needs to tell me no once, and I never accept the friend zone. About the only 'no' I will accept without limiting interaction with a woman is if she is in a relationship already.
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Old 07-27-2015, 10:46 AM
 
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Shouldnt be a problem if you dont date someone you work with. One thing I learned years ago you just dont make co workers your social buddies whether male or female.
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