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Why are all the creepers on online dating? Why are all the normal people that just need an outlet to meet people so few and far between?
I had a guy send me a message the other day. Literally the first message ever exchanged. He said, "Why beat around the bush...I'd love to tear your clothes off "
In what realm is that acceptable?! I guarantee he would not walk up to a random girl in person and say that as an introduction so why should it be ok online? Also, please tell me there is not a girl out there that would respond favorably to that.
I'm just a nice, genuine, single girl trying to find a decent guy. I don't have a lot of friends to go out picking up guys with and I tend to be a little on the shy side so the online avenue is comfortable and easy for me.
I don't want to live on this planet anymore.
I tried it for fun a few years back. I was amazed at how many pictures of...um...guys "stuff" I got in the first message. One was a close up and said "this is me right now, I'm at such and such hotel." What was I going to do, drop the phone and jump in the car and go speeding over?
Another guy tried to get me to agree to early morning, before work, booty calls. He was married but said his pregnant wife wasn't able so she was okay with it. Riiiight. That one messaged me MANY times trying to make that work.
Another was a guy who insisted I meet him at a bar, he said he even had a drink all ready for me. Right, like I am going to take a mixed drink from a stranger?
It is a shame the sites are so full of weirdos.
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Why are all the creepers on online dating? Why are all the normal people that just need an outlet to meet people so few and far between?
I had a guy send me a message the other day. Literally the first message ever exchanged. He said, "Why beat around the bush...I'd love to tear your clothes off "
In what realm is that acceptable?! I guarantee he would not walk up to a random girl in person and say that as an introduction so why should it be ok online? Also, please tell me there is not a girl out there that would respond favorably to that.
I'm just a nice, genuine, single girl trying to find a decent guy. I don't have a lot of friends to go out picking up guys with and I tend to be a little on the shy side so the online avenue is comfortable and easy for me.
I don't want to live on this planet anymore.
Well at least you have a lot to choose from, try being a guy were women thing all men are the same One creep screws it up for all of us
its a microcosm of the real world, ur being exposed to hundreds of guys in a short time frame instead of the one guy every few months asking u out, of course there is going to be 80%+ u arent compatible with mixed in with ur creepers and weirdos, i m sure the percentage is higher.
Well from what I see I'm not ready to date period! too much stuff going on with my life from getting kicked out of my family to getting a career going on stay tuned ppl!
its a microcosm of the real world, ur being exposed to hundreds of guys in a short time frame instead of the one guy every few months asking u out, of course there is going to be 80%+ u arent compatible with mixed in with ur creepers and weirdos, i m sure the percentage is higher.
OLD user are in the millions and it is growing .
OLD will be the norm soon enough.
I tend to better online than real life.
My current boyfriend on the one of the worst site called Craigslist while POF did nothing.
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