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About over a week ago, a guy I kinda work with, sent me this text message, "I love you bibi", follow by "sure......" after he called me telling me his phone is acting weird. I just share this number with him for the first time about 30 minutes earlier on that day for work-related issue on that day. He's really weak person, doesn't speak his mind, and keeps quiet all day... type of person.
Later that day, he share me his vehicle police issues, and he usually shares a lot of his crappy racist/political/wimpy career problems. I don't discuss it farther than that because I keep people secrets pretty well, especially the ones I like. I get vibes he likes me a lot, but as a person to confine into, like therapy
Now, he is married (so big no)...
Do you think this guy was interested in me??? Or was it really just a 'phone' acting weird TWICE. He brought me treats before, and is always nice around me. So I don't know.
About over a week ago, a guy I kinda work with, sent me this text message, "I love you bibi", follow by "sure......" after he called me telling me his phone is acting weird. I just share this number with him for the first time about 30 minutes earlier on that day for work-related issue on that day. He's really weak person, doesn't speak his mind, and keeps quiet all day... type of person.
Later that day, he share me his vehicle police issues, and he usually shares a lot of his crappy racist/political/wimpy career problems. I don't discuss it farther than that because I keep people secrets pretty well, especially the ones I like. I get vibes he likes me a lot, but as a person to confine into, like therapy
Now, he is married (so big no)...
Do you think this guy was interested in me??? Or was it really just a 'phone' acting weird TWICE. He brought me treats before, and is always nice around me. So I don't know.
Possibly. I would leave that alone; he already got married so what else do you need to know.
About over a week ago, a guy I kinda work with, sent me this text message, "I love you bibi", follow by "sure......" after he called me telling me his phone is acting weird. I just share this number with him for the first time about 30 minutes earlier on that day for work-related issue on that day. He's really weak person, doesn't speak his mind, and keeps quiet all day... type of person.
Later that day, he share me his vehicle police issues, and he usually shares a lot of his crappy racist/political/wimpy career problems. I don't discuss it farther than that because I keep people secrets pretty well, especially the ones I like. I get vibes he likes me a lot, but as a person to confine into, like therapy.
Now, he is married (so big no)...
Do you think this guy was interested in me??? Or was it really just a 'phone' acting weird TWICE. He brought me treats before, and is always nice around me. So I don't know.
OP:
I am a married female.
Regarding the bolded part in pink...
As a married female, I am not anyone's surrogate mate or substitute mate who provides their emotional needs. Neither is my husband.
He needs to confide to his wife. Not to some other female.
You are at work to do the best job you can for the person who hired you--your employer, boss. You are not there to be someone's therapist, "buddy" or sex partner.
It doesn't matter what this "man's" intentions are. As long as you know that your intentions are business relationships only at work with a person who is obviously interested in you for more than that reason, you will be fine. I would calmly tell him that you are not interested in him. Block his number and report him to Human Resources or directly to your boss if he persists.
I don't know if he is interested in you or not, but he is married (which yes if you have integrity this should be a big no for you), and you work with him.....add both of these together and it would be unprofessional and just plain wrong and bad advice to get involved with him in any personal romantic type manner...
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