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Old 08-17-2015, 05:54 PM
 
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So the last 4 dates i have went on (that wasn't flaked, actual dates) have been with women that i have really had to work on to go on a date.

Like they aren't sure or whatever but I keep talking and asking and we go

They will always say something along the lines of "You're so persuasive" and I'll say something back like "Is that bad?" or "I don't see that as a bad thing"

usually they shoot back with a text saying "Actually it's nice to have that for once" or "nah it's not a bad thing"

so do women really like men who are persuasive?

i always thought ask once and if they say no give up

thoughts?

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Old 08-17-2015, 06:02 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Depends how hot he is, otherwise, hes a creeper

I think, you were more persistent then persuasive.
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Old 08-17-2015, 06:02 PM
 
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So the last 4 dates i have went on (that wasn't flaked, actual dates) have been with women that i have really had to work on to go on a date.

Like they aren't sure or whatever but I keep talking and asking and we go

They will always say something along the lines of "You're so persuasive" and I'll say something back like "Is that bad?" or "I don't see that as a bad thing"

usually they shoot back with a text saying "Actually it's nice to have that for once" or "nah it's not a bad thing"

so do women really like men who are persuasive?

i always thought ask once and if they say no give up

thoughts?
As long as it's entertaining in some way, they're probably okay with it. What do you think of it though? Do you really like being a full time entertainer for your dates?
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Old 08-17-2015, 06:10 PM
 
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I'm wonder if answers like "Is that bad?" is the reason why these dates have been with four different women...
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Old 08-17-2015, 06:12 PM
 
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yes persistent lol

wtf was i thinking?

and i didnt say "is that bad" it was more of a "haha is it really that bad? i mean you said yes :P"
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Old 08-17-2015, 06:13 PM
 
Location: Canada
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Are you still dating any of these four women?
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Old 08-17-2015, 06:14 PM
 
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Are you still dating any of these four women?
no theyve all been within the last 2 weeks..i mean im still talking to 2 of em

one i wasnt interested

the other is thursday
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Old 08-17-2015, 06:17 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Yes if they want you.
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Old 08-17-2015, 06:19 PM
 
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I don't like pushy.
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Old 08-17-2015, 06:19 PM
 
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I don't like pushy.

is there a difference?
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