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Old 08-23-2015, 08:05 AM
 
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SIX PAGES on this and OP is STILL asking questions? I'm sorry, I do NOT believe you are over 40 - you don't even sound over 20...... Maybe she wants to see if you need "babysitting".....
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Old 08-23-2015, 08:14 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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OP get over to the UK for a week have a drink in the roughest pubs plenty of " grab a granny " nights
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Old 08-23-2015, 08:16 AM
 
Location: Earth
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Well again why would she risk meeting up with me and still do the changes in her house and travel with her husband???
Because she wants her husband. However, things may be off sexually, and that's what you'll be for. It's strictly naughty fun. But she does not love you, and probably has no plans on leaving her husband. She just plans to not get caught.

Same way some men never leave their wives, or planned to, but they still have a side piece for extra fun, or stress relief when things get rough at home. But they couldn't care less about their mistress most of the time. A girl I know was sleeping with a guy who had a girlfriend. Did he ever leave his girlfriend for her? No. His girlfriend did dump him eventually, but he still didn't want to date his side chick. The side piece finally left him because she caught feelings and wanted to date him, and he wouldn't entertain that idea, then he went and got another girlfriend over her, which showed her how much he cared for her-which was none.
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Old 08-23-2015, 09:18 AM
 
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Because she wants her husband. However, things may be off sexually, and that's what you'll be for. It's strictly naughty fun. But she does not love you, and probably has no plans on leaving her husband. She just plans to not get caught.

Same way some men never leave their wives, or planned to, but they still have a side piece for extra fun, or stress relief when things get rough at home. But they couldn't care less about their mistress most of the time. A girl I know was sleeping with a guy who had a girlfriend. Did he ever leave his girlfriend for her? No. His girlfriend did dump him eventually, but he still didn't want to date his side chick. The side piece finally left him because she caught feelings and wanted to date him, and he wouldn't entertain that idea, then he went and got another girlfriend over her, which showed her how much he cared for her-which was none.
Well as she mentioned about her husband having a lot of medical problems, she is probably wanting stress relieving sex. And she is confident that it could be kept a secret. Obviously if we have sex I could not get her pregnant based on her age. But would she still have it in her to really be full of sexual energy based at her age?
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Old 08-23-2015, 09:21 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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Well as she mentioned about her husband having a lot of medical problems, she is probably wanting stress relieving sex. And she is confident that it could be kept a secret. Obviously if we have sex I could not get her pregnant based on her age. But would she still have it in her to really be full of sexual energy based at her age?
Just to clarify, did this woman actually verbally tell you that she wants no-strings sex, or is this something that you're inferring from the sole fact that she's emailing you?

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Old 08-23-2015, 09:23 AM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Well as she mentioned about her husband having a lot of medical problems, she is probably wanting stress relieving sex. And she is confident that it could be kept a secret. Obviously if we have sex I could not get her pregnant based on her age. But would she still have it in her to really be full of sexual energy based at her age?
" many a fine tune is played on an old fiddle "

She would probably have enough energy for the 2 of you ( bit of an ageist comment btw) and that's very kind of you not wanting to get her pregnant in sure she will be relieved
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Old 08-23-2015, 09:26 AM
 
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Just to clarify, did this woman actually verbally tell you that she wants no-strings sex, or is this something that you're inferring from her?
Well based on that she really wants to meet up with me I am thinking that she really wants something because whenever I email her she is instantly replying to me. Is that an indicator that she really likes me or something? Please answer
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Old 08-23-2015, 09:30 AM
 
Location: NNJ
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Well based on that she really wants to meet up with me I am thinking that she really wants something because whenever I email her she is instantly replying to me. Is that an indicator that she really likes me or something? Please answer
Look... it is real easy.

Ask her.

"What do you want to do?"

Hang out.. have lunch?

Or to hook up.
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Old 08-23-2015, 09:38 AM
 
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Look... it is real easy.

Ask her.

"What do you want to do?"

Hang out.. have lunch?

Or to hook up.
Well we are meeting at a coffee place. And also I find it that she is wanting something because she lives about 35 miles from where I live and she is making the effort to meet me close to my area? And coming to the place herself with no husband? Hasn't seen me in a long time? Looking forward to meeting me? And I don't know if her husband knows that we are meeting and that she is meeting a guy? Is he obviously knowing that she is going on a coffee date with me? What do you think of this?
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Old 08-23-2015, 09:54 AM
 
Location: NNJ
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Well we are meeting at a coffee place. And also I find it that she is wanting something because she lives about 35 miles from where I live and she is making the effort to meet me close to my area? And coming to the place herself with no husband? Hasn't seen me in a long time? Looking forward to meeting me? And I don't know if her husband knows that we are meeting and that she is meeting a guy? Is he obviously knowing that she is going on a coffee date with me? What do you think of this?
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Its easy.

1) Pickup phone
2) Dial her number
3) Talk to her.
4) Ask her the questions.

How in the world are you 40 and not know how to deal with this?
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