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Old 08-22-2015, 07:21 PM
 
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You think too much.
Idk just thought it was common sense. Honestly I was just a bit annoyed at his lack of response, I'm kinda over it now. We only had one date, can't take anything seriously after one date anyway (which was mediocre in comparison to the other guys who made it past a first date).
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Old 08-22-2015, 07:31 PM
 
Location: Nashville, TN -
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You should not be tracking his logins at this point. You've had one date. Chill.
Exactly!

When I did OLD, there were a couple of guys who got bent out of shape because they saw me on the site after we'd had ONE date (I was responding to messages. Men often complain that women don't respond, so I always tried to respond to as many courteous, sincere emails as I could). Crazy. I didn't realize people are supposed to take themselves off the market as soon as they've had one decent date with someone.

OP, yes, he should have responded to your text, and he probably will. But there is nothing wrong with him being back on the site after your date. Besides, the only way you'd know that is because you're on the site, too.
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Old 08-22-2015, 07:41 PM
 
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Arranging dates via text is annoying anyway so I can understand the frustration when a person takes long to respond to a text. But as far as asking why would someone do something? You'll drive yourself crazy trying to figure out why and it doesn't really matter why anyway. One minute you have someone's attention and the next minute you don't. Such is life.
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Old 08-22-2015, 07:45 PM
 
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your over reacting could be seen as weird as his under reacting....

If he's into you he will be in touch, if not , more fish in the sea..
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Old 08-22-2015, 07:54 PM
 
Location: Corona the I.E.
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Like I said I don't really care about his log ins at this point, I just happened to see he was on when I logged on and got annoyed because he did not reply to my last text and it had been over two hours.
You do care and it shows in your post

People do this..........I had some women ghost me on Tinder after being all excited..........you had 1 date 1.......People
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Old 08-23-2015, 05:42 AM
 
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Desperation; big mistake;a bit clingy
Move on;it's not the end of life
'Couple billion in the whole wide world;find another man coz well;he seems to have move on or something; na×6'
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Old 08-23-2015, 06:07 AM
 
Location: a primitive state
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Two hours? Look, he might be trying sort through a number of priorities to find a time to go out with you again. Sometimes it takes me a day or so to work out my schedule. I rarely reply to texts immediately, because I'm not glued to my phone.

Stop obsessing.
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Old 08-23-2015, 07:31 AM
 
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Like I said I don't really care about his log ins at this point, I just happened to see he was on when I logged on and got annoyed because he did not reply to my last text and it had been over two hours.
If that annoys you, you must spend most of your days being annoyed. Over 2 hours?? OMG how can you stand it!!!!!
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Old 08-23-2015, 03:42 PM
 
Location: Middle America
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...I... got annoyed because he did not reply to my last text and it had been over two hours.
For the love of GOD, put down the phone. Relax.

I'm sorry, but Jesus. This OMG TWO HOURS AND NO TEXT OMG thing is really pathetic. People have other things to do in life than sit on their devices. Dating is not a full-time job.
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Old 08-23-2015, 05:20 PM
 
Location: Atlanta, GA
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Online dating/ texting/ online activity statuses are all the devil.
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