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Old 08-23-2015, 12:18 PM
 
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I've been dating a guy for a month and the most recent date was partially at his place. We had sex (for the first time) and once it was finished, I excused myself from the bedroom to go to the bathroom only to come back less than a few minutes later to find him fully dressed and....he had neatly arranged my underwear, bra and clothes at the end of the bed waiting for me to dress in them. He was just standing there with a weird smile. I was shocked and still am. It was extremely awkward. Needless to say, I left very shortly after that but I have never encountered such a hurtful and strange after-sex behavior.

This is more of a vent than anything, but if anyone can share any thoughts or words or anything, I would appreciate it.
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Old 08-23-2015, 12:22 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Yikes. I'm only guessing, the sex wasn't that good.

Im sorry, OP.
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Old 08-23-2015, 12:24 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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That's typically what happens. I don't know what else you expected.

Cut your losses and move on.
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Old 08-23-2015, 12:27 PM
 
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I think I would have tried to make light of it and said, "I guess we're done? Not up for round #2?"
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Old 08-23-2015, 12:28 PM
 
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Who knows?maybe he could be getting ready for the next girl(pants to get into that is)
For the sex being horrible; let's hear how he reacted during the session
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Old 08-23-2015, 12:28 PM
 
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He got his. You became instantly expendable after. I sincerely hope you never saw him again.
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Old 08-23-2015, 12:34 PM
 
Location: NNJ
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This is typical? Since when? Either I am getting old or I was atypical. Would never do that....

Sorry this happened.
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Old 08-23-2015, 12:35 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Not enough info. Did he not say anything at all?? You just got dressed and left?????????

What did HE say about it?
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Old 08-23-2015, 12:37 PM
 
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It could be worse, he could have been stripping the bed for washing.

This is why I don't have one night stands at my place. Washing bedding is a PITA
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Old 08-23-2015, 12:39 PM
 
Location: Central Texas
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That IS really weird. Even if he didn't want you to stick around...it's still very weird.
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