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I've been googled by lots of people I met online, I don't see what the big deal is. Heck, my boss googled me before hiring me (and that's not as serious as a young mother letting a stranger around her kids).
OP, if you have a problem with it, end it now and let go. But ask yourself, do you really want to be around the type of woman who doesn't care who she is dating? Doesn't care about the safety of her kids? Etc?
I guess that she figured that I was right. In her defense she said, she has two small children and I get that, I do, but I still feel like it is wrong. I told her that anyone could write anything about someone online that is not true, and she reassured me that she was only looking for background stuff. Thats fine, but I still feel like I have been violated and I do not like it. The funny thing was that I googled her last night and she had told me that she had gotten into trouble for obstructing a highway, and come to find out it was a DWI. So I don't know how I feel about that. I am not a judgmental person and I do let a lot of things slide. Other than this, we have gotten along great and I would hate to have to walk away from this.
No, I don't think you get that, because you would be better able to put yourself in her shoes if you did.
Before she knew you well, she contemplated the safety of herself and her children and checked to make sure you were who you said you were. Did she find anything that wasn't true? Did she find anything that made her not want to be with you? Nope! How were you violated? She didn't trust you completely then, maybe she does now. She cared enough about her children to follow up...isn't that the kind of woman you want to be with? One who is cautious first and considers her own needs second? I would NEVER be with a guy who would be upset with me for checking him out first...most of the guys I date are fathers themselves and seem to appreciate that I'm smart enough to follow up.
A man who has nothing to hide, hides nothing...
Don't throw away a good thing. If you do, you ARE judgemental.
She didnt find anything on me because there is nothing to hide, about me anway. I dont have a good relationship wth my family. A recent search today revealed my family's names, addresses, ages, and email addresses. Im sorry but thats beyond creepy. I understand that she looked me up, but i told her that im an honest person and i am. I do not lie to people. If she would bave asked, i would have told her the truth no matter what.
Well, that is good it is not you. My point was, why didn't this person google before the date?
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