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Is this your answer to everyone in this situation?
It very much sounded to me as if he was shocked by having her initiate sex when they were just getting to know each other.
Im with you. It didnt sound like it took long for her to have sex with him. Its too bad as so many relationships get started with the horse before the cart. Sex doesnt guarantee an ongoing relatioship or loyalty.
Last edited by luv my dayton; 08-30-2015 at 07:20 AM..
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Im with you. It didnt sound like it took long for her to have sex with him. Its too bad as so many relationships get started with the horse before the cart. Sex doesnt guarantee an ongoing relatioship or loyalty.
I had crush on for very long time - I did resist it for awhile. He was ready to take me out -I but think even if we did dated for longer the outcome would have been the same.
I don't regret sleeping with him at all - just his behaviours afterwards are surprising and confusing.
maybe I could've handled it better too but what's is done is done.
It sounds like too much game playing going on and neither of you knows who is "winning".
I suspect that as long as both of you continue this kind of childish behavior it will be clear that you both will end up losing.
(Oh, he was after sex. I am not sure what you are expecting. Do yourself a favor. Read your post and pretend it is someone else. Try and be as objective as you can and maybe the answer to your question will become clearer to you.)
He's copping out and putting the blame on you. A man who wants a relationship will contact you regularly. Those who don't will keep you waiting, hoping you'll move on.
Gemma like what londoncowboy said he got what he wanted hun and I know it hurts, but the best thing for you know is to forget about him and move on. sometimes it is easier said that done. To take your mind off things call up your girlfriends have a good time, get involve with some community project or simple volunteer at some local YMCA...
Start concentrating on you. Do the things you always wanted to do. Just give him space and be happy.
Hope that helps
gemma like what londoncowboy said he got what he wanted hun and i know it hurts, but the best thing for you know is to forget about him and move on. Sometimes it is easier said that done. To take your mind off things call up your girlfriends have a good time, get involve with some community project or simple volunteer at some local ymca...
Start concentrating on you. Do the things you always wanted to do. Just give him space and be happy.
Hope that helps
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