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Old 09-04-2015, 08:51 AM
 
Location: Utica, NY
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And not loving it. When you're broken, no one wants you. If you can't love yourself, you'll never be able to accept someone else's love and you'll tear down every compliment. I pushed this person away one too many times and it was one push too far. I just feel like **** as he was the only thing keeping me going.
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Old 09-04-2015, 08:59 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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I am sorry, Amy.

There is somebody out there for you, I am sure.
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Old 09-04-2015, 09:02 AM
 
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all part of it...spend this time mending YOU...working on YOU...don't worry about the next mr right...once you fix you, there will be plenty of willing mr rights in line

very sorry...heartbreak is horrible and I wouldn't wish it on anyone
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Old 09-04-2015, 09:10 AM
 
Location: Utica, NY
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Well he just gave up on me even though I never gave up on him. I guess it's true that 2 depressed people shouldn't be together. I just thought it would be good for us both. The worst part is that we lost the friendship too. And I don't have many friends as it is. I just feel very low and somewhat used
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Old 09-04-2015, 09:22 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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Sorry to hear that.

Live
Learn
Move forward.

Don't beat yourself up, life can do that anyways, don't add to the load.

Best of luck to you.
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Old 09-04-2015, 09:24 AM
 
Location: In my skin
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You recognize you're broken. Don't bring anyone into your life until you're healed or you will find yourself here time and time again.
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Old 09-04-2015, 09:49 AM
 
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get the depression under control before the next guy
therapy and medication...
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Old 09-04-2015, 10:01 AM
 
Location: Princeton
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Be brave lass, stand tall and get hold of your boot straps, you have to be the very best you can be in this world, get your smile back on your face and get your life back in good order lass. I tell you, once you get hold of your life you'll start winning back the things you sorely miss, like your peace of mind, then be brave and take that step forward with your head up for yourself and for your life, my lady..
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Old 09-04-2015, 10:10 AM
 
Location: Ames, Iowa
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You recognize you're broken. Don't bring anyone into your life until you're healed or you will find yourself here time and time again.
Exactly and this basically what I was referring when I started the thread "What is the point of a relationship".

Some people don't seem to be able to deal with life on their own and use other people are crutches because they are terrified to be on their own.
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Old 09-04-2015, 10:16 AM
 
Location: Middle America
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Amy, given your current financial/living situation and the steps you are considering taking to attempt to remedy that situation, as well as your current mental health state, a relationship seems like an unrealistic thing to attempt to maintain at this point. You've been posting about an intent to start involvement in the sex trade to create an income for yourself, since you are convinced that you cannot work a conventional job and remain off the street due to psychological problems. How many significant others do you think are going to realistically be amenable to someone in such a position, entertaining the thought of such measures?
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