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Old 08-30-2015, 12:11 PM
 
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Have any of you ever dated, been in a relationship, engaged, married, etc. To someone who always told you stuff like "I feel rejected and neglected and that no one loves me." OR they always ask you "Do you like me and why?" OR "Do you love me and why?" saying this stuff and asking this stuff to you like 24/7? What would you do about this situation? Would you always reply to these remarks or just move on and find someone else?

The guy I have been seeing for the past 7 months, is always asking me this kind of stuff and he should already know my answer, I don't like having to repeat myself 24/7. What would you do?
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Old 08-30-2015, 12:29 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Have any of you ever dated, been in a relationship, engaged, married, etc. To someone who always told you stuff like "I feel rejected and neglected and that no one loves me." OR they always ask you "Do you like me and why?" OR "Do you love me and why?" saying this stuff and asking this stuff to you like 24/7? What would you do about this situation? Would you always reply to these remarks or just move on and find someone else?

The guy I have been seeing for the past 7 months, is always asking me this kind of stuff and he should already know my answer, I don't like having to repeat myself 24/7. What would you do?
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Old 08-30-2015, 01:10 PM
 
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UGH. No, I would not put up with that pathetic nonsense for a second. Why would you? I see it enough on this board to physically turn my stomach, and I don't even KNOW these guys.

Are you so desperate for a boyfriend that you would choose someone with ZERO self esteem? Or maybe a serious mental illness?
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Old 08-30-2015, 01:13 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Yeah, that doesn't sound healthy, I get that people can occasionally have some self doubts, but to keep asking you is odd behavior.

The guy needs to mature a bit and probably isn't really ready for a relationship.
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Old 08-30-2015, 01:15 PM
 
Location: My House
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He's needy and requires constant affirmation. If you want to stay with him, he needs to get past that. Maybe he needs to see a therapist.

Seriously... it's not healthy.
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Old 08-30-2015, 01:16 PM
 
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Have him checked his ears or something; there could be a problem there; right there
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Old 08-30-2015, 01:25 PM
 
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Runnnnn!
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Old 08-30-2015, 01:25 PM
 
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Have any of you ever dated, been in a relationship, engaged, married, etc. To someone who always told you stuff like "I feel rejected and neglected and that no one loves me." OR they always ask you "Do you like me and why?" OR "Do you love me and why?" saying this stuff and asking this stuff to you like 24/7? What would you do about this situation? Would you always reply to these remarks or just move on and find someone else?

The guy I have been seeing for the past 7 months, is always asking me this kind of stuff and he should already know my answer, I don't like having to repeat myself 24/7. What would you do?
Well if I were a woman and was I was in your shoes I'd kick the annoying basterd in the bollox and then told him THAT was how I felt!!!

Honestly on a serious note he's obviously been hurt before so he may be a bit paranoid but he may well be insecure and worried as he really likes you if you see what I mean?

Do you mind me asking how do you feel about him I mean really feel?
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Old 08-30-2015, 01:26 PM
 
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Does he have issues with his parents?
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Old 08-30-2015, 02:55 PM
 
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You really don't know how to pick 'em do you?
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