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eh, reading the other thread in which advice was given to her, it looks a lot more like this is someone she pushed into marriage because it was advantageous for her visa. from her own description the guy wasn't looking for marriage but agreed because OP agreed to buy an apartment with him in exchange.
This isn't a marriage, this is a business transaction. This man isn't your husband, isn't acting like one, and is extremely loath to advertise himself as such. Your marriage will collapse as soon as he finds a way out of it.
Be careful what you ask for, because you got what you wanted.
He didnt marry you because he wanted to be married to you. He did it because you pressured him about your visa. And you soon will be married to someone that hates being around you, and will be cheating on you. See how that works for you.
Mod note: OP started a new thread on this topic today. The new thread has been merged into this older thread.
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You drove him to marry you, and he did. Now you want more, and are surprised he doesn't?
Get on birth control. The last thing you need is a child in this mess.
Please please please be on birth control.
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