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Old 09-05-2015, 08:46 PM
 
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Ok so I kinda have a long story. Im a 23 year old male. When I turned 22 I visited las Vegas and I fell in love with the city. So I told my parents I'm going to move here. All of a sudden I got a job with the va in Vegas within 3 months. And everyone was surprised so I just packed up my car and just up and left this was my first time moving out. The first couple of months was hard but all I did was party and work and did nothing. Every 4 months I would visit home and take vacations to mexico. But now I feel different I did all that stuff when I was single. But now I met a girl from back home in Oregon. It's been about 6 months now since we been dating. And now I'm having the hurge to move back home. She kinda made me realize all i was doing in Vegas was bull****ting. When I moved I just quit everything including college. But now I want to move back home. To be with her and to be with my family I'm all by myself down here. I work for the va and its easy to transfer I recently had a interview at the va in roseburg va. But getting back to my situation I want to go back to school also and my dad works for the college where I'm from so all I have to do is pay for my books. I want to be a nurse btw. But with the va I keep my pay and everything the only thing that changes is my duty location. But right now idk if I should move back home to be with my girlfriend and go back to school. Or just stay here in Vegas and visit home every month for my girl. What do you guys think ??? My parents tell me that I have it made down here. But I'm getting really homesick and want to be with my girl. What do you guys think I should do???
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Old 09-07-2015, 02:34 PM
 
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No one??
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Old 09-07-2015, 02:37 PM
 
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No one can tell you what to do. Its your decision.
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Old 09-07-2015, 06:56 PM
 
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OP go with your heart. It looks like you wish to go home. Do that and see if you could do part time studies in addition to work. Good luck.
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Old 09-07-2015, 07:09 PM
 
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Sounds to me you will not be happy until you head home....
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Old 09-08-2015, 08:46 AM
 
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But I'm getting really homesick and want to be with my girl.
I think you answered your own question.
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Old 09-08-2015, 01:35 PM
 
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why not see if you can move your girl to vegas?
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Old 09-08-2015, 06:49 PM
 
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Go home and be happy. Sounds like a good idea.
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Old 09-08-2015, 07:11 PM
 
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Move back home and finish your education. I can't believe you abandoned that, just because you "fell in love with" Vegas.

Really, OP, this should be a no-brainer. Not sure why the answer isn't clear to you.
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Old 09-08-2015, 07:16 PM
 
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What's VA? Honestly if you are earning enough with that job. I don't see a need to finish school. For me the point to go to school was to get a job that pays enough. NOTHING more.

In your case you already have a good job and it seems you're good at it that they are willing to relocate you.

I am for you going back to Oregon to be with your GF and have your va job. Finish school? nah. at this point in your life I think it would just be a waste. Just my opinion.
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