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My first was a thick chick and she was a great mentor and teacher.
I don't think you're going to learn much from an escort
If he is willing to pay, and tells them (an agency) upfront what he wants, the right place will match him with someone good for his needs. He can come in a virgin and come out a lover, they can be great teachers. Just knowing what to do when he does meet a girl will, IMO change the vibe he gives off when he talks to girls afterward, and that can change everything.
I'm talking higher end, though, not some Craig's List girl.
I think if OP could have found anyone on his own, he would have by now. At 24, the stigma and lack of self-esteem and confidence that comes from being a virgin could be the very thing that keeps him a virgin.
I think it's not a bad idea, if you get the right person and you leave with more confidence. That confidence will help you meet other girls. I wouldn't do it randomly though, you need the right person and not someone who is going to be strict and have rules about not kissing and getting in and out fast...you might have to put up some decent money to get someone who will take time with you and hopefully help you out with some pointers as well. Just do some research and don't pick just based on looks, and be safe about it.
I have to agree here. This is good advice. Try to learn some things, and have fun. Everyone gets what they want in the end. Be safe, and use protection of course.
You may need to high class escorts, not a hooker off the street or someone from a site.
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Can't believe no one has suggested he find an older woman to learn the ropes from, his future partners will thank him (and her). In some ancient cultures this was the standard coming of age but since Victorians it's become a pay-for-it act.
Remember the song "Older Women Make Great Lovers"?
How does he find them? Happy hours where women get free drinks. Naples Florida has more cougars per square foot than any place I've ever seen. Wear a condom.
I thinks it's a bad idea considering your age. I'd say wait till 30 and if you haven't had sex yet in a relationship or fwb just go for it.
Seeing so many threads about virgin guys makes me wish they would just all go to see an escort to get their sexual frustrations over with. Not everyone can be socially competent.
OP, this is a bad idea. Unless you are planning to use prostitutes for the rest of your sexual life, stick to sex in emotional relationships. If someone cares enough to have sex with you, they will enjoy teaching you the ropes.
I don't know much about what that would be like, but I think women in general prefer guys who have at least some idea of what they are doing in bed. An escort looks like a low-drama way to learn a few tricks. Maybe for a little extra she'll actually teach you things women like, and that will come in handy for sure Just don't get any STDs
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If I were picking someone up for a no strings attached sexual romp, i am looking for someone to pleasure me as much as I pleasure them. A virgin male going around openly hitting on women at a bar to show him thd ropes doesnt strike me as a good idea for approach. The difference is that a prostitute doesnt care whether you pleasure her.. there is no expectation of it.
Of course a relationship driven sexual partner may be the ideal... but not everyone lives in an ideal. The person may be motivated to work with you and the inexperience because they love or care.... a stranger off the street? Heck no be prepared for rejection if ou are not great in bed.
Yes you can learn a lot from an escort.... not just any off the street escort looking to make bills. Heck.... I think both men and women as couple can learn a lot from escorts.
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