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The OP isn't asking whether or not prostitution is a substitution for dating. Misleading a woman to get them into bed on the false pretense of a possibility of a relationship is pretty bad in of itself.
A date is not a relationship, I don't agree with the false pretense that you are suggesting.
A date is not a relationship, I don't agree with the false pretense that you are suggesting.
It is.... It may not be a long term or committed relationship. Even for those seeking a casual no strings attached sex... Both are expecting to derive pleasure. Both have expectations. Both are participating because they have similar motivations.
This is a bit different when one person in the sexual act is present according to a business arrangement....
As for the false pretense.... Are you saying it is ok to mislead a woman to get them in bed? Not quite understanding.
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Originally Posted by usayit
The key difference is that meeting a woman in the old fashion way is about a relationship... whether compansionship, sexual, short term or long term. Both parties are involved and getting something out of the relationship..... even if it is just sexual desire and exploration.
I've had open relationships, FWBs, committed relationships. While not all arrangements maybe widely accepted, I would never be dishonest with my intentions. When I see it happen, I think it is an awful display of disregard for someone else.
Don't do it, man. Go out on a few dates instead. Here is a suggestion that I pretty much guarantee will work provided you are clean, smell good, dressed in clothes that match and aren't wrinkled, and don't have bad breath:
Approach 50 random woman and ask that out on dates. I suggest saying something like the following: "you are really good looking. Want to go on a date?"
At least one will say yes, and most likely several. This can be done anywhere- at the gym, at a convenience store, at a bar, at work, it really doesn't matter. Avoid woman that have wedding rings, avoid the 10s (women that look like models), and try to stay 5 years either way within your age group.
Nothing develops social skills like dating, either. It can also be a lot of fun.
If it was this easy, you don't think he would have done it by now?
Also, there's no way this would be ideal to do at the gym.
It's very simple. Easy? Perhaps not. However my suggestion will work.
.... and you saying so doesn't necessarily make it so.
This forum and all the threads about dating and people's plight regarding dating is a testament to that.
You still haven't even figured out that the OP isn't talking about dating....
btw.. You are back tracking the very premise of your line of thought which is pretty weak to begin with.
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Originally Posted by dysgenic
No, I don't think he would have done it by now. And it is this easy.
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