Losing virginity with an escort? (man, beautiful, internet, conversation)

[KevinE]

Originally Posted by Casterer

Thank you.

Yes, I'm prepared to spend quite a lot of money to get a high-end service. I'll look into it.

If you are prepared to travel abroad then I would suggest spending a week hitting the red light districts of Manila.

[dysgenic]

Originally Posted by usayit

.... and you saying so doesn't necessarily make it so.

This forum and all the threads about dating and people's plight regarding dating is a testament to that.

You still haven't even figured out that the OP isn't talking about dating....

btw.. You are back tracking the very premise of your line of thought which is pretty weak to begin with.

Easy in the sense that if he does it, it will work. Not easy in the sense that rejection is sometimes difficult.

[Stockyman]

Originally Posted by Liberty2011

And that's the crux of the matter. It's the lack of social competence. Paying a prostitute for an orgasm isn't going to help him approach women he doesn't need to pay for.

I rather him pay along with other continually frustrated virgins who cannot be successful enough to find a fwb or find a relationship. The world can do without depressed suicidal guys who like to kill people for their failures/lack of success.

[usayit]

Originally Posted by dysgenic

Easy in the sense that if he does it, it will work. Not easy in the sense that rejection is sometimes difficult.

You still don't get it.

[NewYorker11356]

Originally Posted by dysgenic

Easy in the sense that if he does it, it will work. Not easy in the sense that rejection is sometimes difficult.

Lol, just going up to a woman and asking her out doesn't work. This is real life, not books or TV.

Maybe 1 in 100 women would say yes, and that's being hopeful.

[dysgenic]

Originally Posted by NewYorker11356

Lol, just going up to a woman and asking her out doesn't work. This is real life, not books or TV.

Maybe 1 in 100 women would say yes, and that's being hopeful.

It absolutely does work. In certain places (malls and bars come to mind) it will work a lot.

[ocnjgirl]

Originally Posted by dysgenic

It absolutely does work. In certain places (malls and bars come to mind) it will work a lot.

He is 24 and a virgin, you really think he hasn't tried? If he was unable to remedy the situation in high school or college, he's not going to at the mall, because obviously he has a problem with social skills or confidence or both. Going out and trying pickup with the same level of low skills and confidence he has now is only going to result in more rejection. Once he does this though, then he may have the confidence to try. But it is odd to me to think he hasn't tried meeting women previously.

[ActionJaction]

After about five or six rejections I would say the hell with it and go sit at the bar.

[dysgenic]

Originally Posted by ocnjgirl

He is 24 and a virgin, you really think he hasn't tried? If he was unable to remedy the situation in high school or college, he's not going to at the mall, because obviously he has a problem with social skills or confidence or both. Going out and trying pickup with the same level of low skills and confidence he has now is only going to result in more rejection. Once he does this though, then he may have the confidence to try. But it is odd to me to think he hasn't tried meeting women previously.

Yes, I don't think he has tried. At least not in the way that I've suggested. Getting dates is simply not that hard (provided one is willing to accept that many will say no).

[IowaConservative]

Originally Posted by NewYorker11356

Lol, just going up to a woman and asking her out doesn't work. This is real life, not books or TV.

Maybe 1 in 100 women would say yes, and that's being hopeful.

You are absolutely wrong. Approaching women in real life is the most effective way to get dates and most women like it because most guys don't have the guts to do it anymore.