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Old 09-06-2015, 10:52 AM
 
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There is an old coworker of mine from a company that I used to work at. We communicate a lot on email. She is about 30 years older than me but a very nice person. I am in my late 30s. When we worked we communicated during morning coffee at the coffee maker. When I left the company we ended up communicating on and off on email. Lately we communicated a lot on email and at first we were going to meet for coffee. However she suggested that we meet up for breakfast on a weekend at a restaurant. One thing she is married. I don't know if her husband would know about her meeting up with me for breakfast. Also she is always very excited to get my emails and write back. She always tells me what a wonderful person I am. When and if I meet up with her, would she become flirty with me at the restaurant based on how she replies to my emails? Also should I go ahead and meet up with her? Because it would be great to catch up on old times and talk. Please help
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Old 09-06-2015, 11:05 AM
 
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Where have I heard this before?

Oh yeah. //www.city-data.com/forum/relat...eet-up-me.html
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Old 09-06-2015, 11:19 AM
 
Location: FAIRFAX, VA
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Where have I heard this before?

Oh yeah. //www.city-data.com/forum/relat...eet-up-me.html
So true. LMAO!!
OP, are you really considering meeting this lady? What exactly can you gain from it, nothing.
You should stay away.
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Old 09-06-2015, 11:31 AM
 
Location: North Carolina
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I wouldn't do it, OP. Always imagine things from the other perspective. What if you were the husband? Plus, she's 30 years older and obviously attracted to you. Not a good idea, IMO.
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Old 09-06-2015, 11:48 AM
 
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Didn't you get enough replies in your other identical thread about this exact same issue? What do you want from us? You're just being redundant now.
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Old 09-06-2015, 12:24 PM
 
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Didn't you get enough replies in your other identical thread about this exact same issue? What do you want from us? You're just being redundant now.
Well, it wasn't totally identical. In the other thread, he was in his 40s. He's shaved off a few years.
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Old 09-06-2015, 12:27 PM
 
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There is an old coworker of mine from a company that I used to work at. We communicate a lot on email. She is about 30 years older than me but a very nice person. I am in my late 30s. When we worked we communicated during morning coffee at the coffee maker. When I left the company we ended up communicating on and off on email. Lately we communicated a lot on email and at first we were going to meet for coffee. However she suggested that we meet up for breakfast on a weekend at a restaurant. One thing she is married. I don't know if her husband would know about her meeting up with me for breakfast. Also she is always very excited to get my emails and write back. She always tells me what a wonderful person I am. When and if I meet up with her, would she become flirty with me at the restaurant based on how she replies to my emails? Also should I go ahead and meet up with her? Because it would be great to catch up on old times and talk. Please help

If you cannot make a decision about breakfast you should stay home until you are mature enough to meet someone in public for a meal.
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Old 09-06-2015, 12:27 PM
 
Location: On the Chesapeake
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Well, it wasn't totally identical. In the other thread, he was in his 40s. He's shaved off a few years.
Mayhaps, but I still want to post a cougar picture:



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Old 09-06-2015, 01:57 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Your the other man!
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