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Sad times, then. Very player-like move. I guess I still live in a southern fantasy world, where it was always suggested that the guy ask for the girls' number.
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Originally Posted by elnina
^^^ Not really. I rather get his number than give mine. That way you are in control, in case he is a nut case...
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Common courtesy is for the first text to state who you are "Hey Davie, This is Sue, we met at _____, how are you doing?" etc. So you don't create that awkwardness.
A guy gave me his number 2 days ago when I was out.He was the one who approached me and gave me his number .I texted him the following day and I told him who I am .We chatted for bit until he abruptly stopped texting. I didn't hear from him for a whole say so I decided to text him today and he said "who is this'? Did he delete my number? Is he just not interested?
Ask him instead of assuming anything and asking random strangers on a public forum who cannot even give a minimally informed guess about his interest in you.
Common courtesy is for the first text to state who you are "Hey Davie, This is Sue, we met at _____, how are you doing?" etc. So you don't create that awkwardness.
Well I aready did that the first time I texted him . I expected him to save my number in his phone so he will know who I am the next time I contact him.
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Well I aready did that the first time I texted him . I expected him to save my number in his phone so he will know who I am the next time I contact him.
Lofty expectation. I don't save any numbers until I've gone out a few times.
Makes you long for the good ole days before texting and other forms of technology came into play. At least you tell yourself that maybe he was not home when you tried to call him instead of choosing not to answer the phone.
We all like to feel special. If you really like this guy, put your wounded ego aside and text him again. One reason he may not save your number is because he doesn't want his other girlfriend(s) or wife checking his phone and seeing another woman's name on his contact list. That happened to my friend a while back.
(Oh, see you posted when I was typing. Good luck and I hope everything works out for the best.)
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