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Old 09-08-2015, 08:18 AM
 
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My soon to be ex and I are separated
seeing other people
Living in same house but different rooms...
we both agree divorce is coming but dragging our feet
3 kids involved, know a bit what is happening...know we are separated

Anyways, someone I went to grade school and high school with, been facebook friends with since the beginning of facebook...someone My wife and I double dated with and her husband, someone Ive seen at my 10 and 20 hr reunions...she went through a divorce and knows we are about done

She invited me out to see a movie and we ended up spending the night together...and have been seeing each other since (month or so) and are seeing other peeps,,,no rush for commitment

recently I accepted friend invitations from 2 other girls I know from school...both are divorced and know my situation...went out with both of them a couple times and again...sex...no commitment expected...

for grits and shins I looked at all the 40 something divorced female friends I have on facebook and was amazed at how many there were...this is a wealth of opportunity...

who needs pof or other dating sites when they have facebook
I am hoping any potential pitfalls are identified before its too late...lol...
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Old 09-08-2015, 08:37 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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My soon to be ex and I are separated
seeing other people
Living in same house but different rooms...
we both agree divorce is coming but dragging our feet
3 kids involved, know a bit what is happening...know we are separated

Anyways, someone I went to grade school and high school with, been facebook friends with since the beginning of facebook...someone My wife and I double dated with and her husband, someone Ive seen at my 10 and 20 hr reunions...she went through a divorce and knows we are about done

She invited me out to see a movie and we ended up spending the night together...and have been seeing each other since (month or so) and are seeing other peeps,,,no rush for commitment

recently I accepted friend invitations from 2 other girls I know from school...both are divorced and know my situation...went out with both of them a couple times and again...sex...no commitment expected...

for grits and shins I looked at all the 40 something divorced female friends I have on facebook and was amazed at how many there were...this is a wealth of opportunity...

who needs pof or other dating sites when they have facebook
I am hoping any potential pitfalls are identified before its too late...lol...
Congratulations?

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Old 09-08-2015, 09:54 PM
 
Location: H-town, TX.
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for grits and shins I looked at all the 40 something divorced female friends I have on facebook and was amazed at how many there were...this is a wealth of opportunity...
Hey, one man's wealth is another man's...

Eh, whatever.

If that's what you're down to for happiness, so be it.
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Old 03-06-2016, 01:04 PM
 
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The OP hasn't been back after his original post.

I"m sure he soon learned what the phrase, "I"m not going to be IGNORED Dan", means firsthand. And it's 10 fold WomanBook style. Those women probably stalked all of his contacts, friends and family members to the end of the Earth, told his wife, etc. lol
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Old 03-06-2016, 01:30 PM
 
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i disgaree facebook cna be bad
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Old 03-07-2016, 11:03 AM
 
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The OP hasn't been back after his original post.

I"m sure he soon learned what the phrase, "I"m not going to be IGNORED Dan", means firsthand. And it's 10 fold WomanBook style. Those women probably stalked all of his contacts, friends and family members to the end of the Earth, told his wife, etc. lol
Apparently his wife is fine with all this. Either that or she doesn't never found out about it in the first place. Or maybe he is just lying.


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true


At 46, to expect sex 3-4 times a week is a bit much imo...and I am very sexually active...my wife and I are both more or less twice a week...have always been on the same sexual schedual more or less


however...at 46, sex every other month is not acceptable, at least to me and most of my friends...even most of my friends wives would agree that once every other month, over an extended amount of time, is unacceptable


and we are peeps that have been married/together for 20 years, not just 5
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