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That's just it, was she saying that because of your stamina, or because you she thinks you can look better?
Either way it's a pretty rude thing to say after the first time of having sex with someone new. Whether or not she had a rock hard body doesn't really matter, it's just downright rude.
So over the weekend I found a girl we had incredible sex then tells me the comment
You need to start working out
How should I feel about this? My body is average
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That probably translates to "CHUBBY"
I guess you look bigger without clothes.
Either lose the weight or lose the girl.
I'd say both.
But he might not be chubby and just have poor physical stamina. Planking helps. You need good core, good stamina, and to be able to hold yourself up and extended period of time to do a lot of particular positions/acts.
Im aware this might be irrelevant but what do you mean by average? Because honestly I knew a clearly overweight man who called his body type average and I was blunt with him (because we were friends) after he told me his height weight I said he is in overweight category, because he was. He responded by insulting my body even though I was at a healthy weight. I was just trying to be honest with him because he wasn't viewing himself based in reality and he had never had a girlfriend (not by choice), so I was just trying to help his self awareness. If you're overweight and walk around telling people "I'm average weight" people are going to think you're a bit strange and out of touch. anyways look on a height weight chart and make sure you're truly a healthy weight, is all I'm trying to say. If you truly are a healthy weight then disregard this message also that girl was rude, if you are an average weight, in my opinion it is rude to tell someone that. You should tell her to find a guy that's more fit if it bothers her that you're at a healthy weight. Maybe she is wanting man with a six pack rather than average. No need to bend to her demands. There are plenty of women who like average sized men. I like them and don't see what the big deal is about with huge muscles or six packs
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Im aware this might be irrelevant but what do you mean by average? Because honestly I knew a clearly overweight man who called his body type average and I was blunt with him (because we were friends) after he told me his height weight I said he is in overweight category, because he was. He responded by insulting my body even though I was at a healthy weight. I was just trying to be honest with him because he wasn't viewing himself based in reality and he had never had a girlfriend (not by choice), so I was just trying to help his self awareness. If you're overweight and walk around telling people "I'm average weight" people are going to think you're a bit strange and out of touch. anyways look on a height weight chart and make sure you're truly a healthy weight, is all I'm trying to say. If you truly are a healthy weight then disregard this message also that girl was rude, if you are an average weight, in my opinion it is rude to tell someone that. You should tell her to find a guy that's more fit if it bothers her!
Average and healthy aren't synonymous. The average person IS overweight these days.
And you can be carrying extra points (Esp according to the BS BMI!) and be healthy and in good shape, and be thin and be very out of shape. In fact, there really isn't a thing such as a "healthy" weight, they're different issues.
Go run or hit the gym no matter how you 'feel' about what she said. She offered good advice, either for your future with her or with other women. Oh, and congrats on getting laid (especially if as another commenter noted you were having trouble meeting women).
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Go run or hit the gym no matter how you 'feel' about what she said. She offered good advice, either for your future with her or with other women. Oh, and congrats on getting laid (especially if as another commenter noted you were having trouble meeting women).
Indeed. Everyone should be working out. Often. Very often.
Im aware this might be irrelevant but what do you mean by average? Because honestly I knew a clearly overweight man who called his body type average and I was blunt with him (because we were friends) after he told me his height weight I said he is in overweight category, because he was.
Overweight IS the average, currently.
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also that girl was rude, if you are an average weight, in my opinion it is rude to tell someone that. You should tell her to find a guy that's more fit if it bothers her that you're at a healthy weight. Maybe she is wanting man with a six pack rather than average. No need to bend to her demands. There are plenty of women who like average sized men. I like them and don't see what the big deal is about with huge muscles or six packs
