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In the early stages of dating, I am very careful and in control of my bodily functions. After 18 years of marriage...let's just say that neither of us cared all that much for years. I would occasionally just let nature take its course around him whenever I felt the need, and I stopped shaving my legs unless I was planning to wear shorts or a bathing suit. He, on the other hand, was an utter and total slob. Way, way more gross. Soiled underwear were the least of it. I could even cope with the disgusting and frequent farts. He'd eat, sitting on the edge of the bed, and wipe greasy, food smeared hands on the bedspread. Drop crumbs everywhere. Leave dishes, and even perishable food, sitting on the floor by his side of the bed. If confronted, "I was going to clean that up later."
Not controlling one's bodily functions well enough...that is one thing. But such thoughtless slovenliness, which is completely preventable and absolutely a choice to be lazy and disgusting...that is another.
With someone new, I can imagine accidentally farting around them, and having a wide eyed, embarrassed look, if we both laughed, it would bode well for our immediate future as far as I'm concerned. If a man did so around me, so long as it was an isolated incident and not just constant...I'd ignore it, or if he said something (apologized or excused himself) I'd tell him not to worry about it, that I've lived with FAR worse.
In the early stages of dating, I am very careful and in control of my bodily functions.
WHAT? You mean...people HAVE THAT POWER? There are instances in which you can actually control whether or not you let one rip, to the extent that you can go relieve yourself privately and politely? REALLY?
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With someone new, I can imagine accidentally farting around them, and having a wide eyed, embarrassed look, if we both laughed, it would bode well for our immediate future as far as I'm concerned. If a man did so around me, so long as it was an isolated incident and not just constant...I'd ignore it, or if he said something (apologized or excused himself) I'd tell him not to worry about it, that I've lived with FAR worse.
Yep. There's a world of difference between, "It slipped out, oops, sorry, hahahah," and "I don't really give a crap about what you think about my manners, and I have no real pull to be polite in your presence, so, here, deal with my rudeness." One communicates that someone isn't worth good manners, one is a legitimate "Ooops, sorry."
I also stopped seeing a woman once, because, after a night of great sex I got up first the next morning and saw skidmarks on her panties laying on the floor. Ewwwww.. I got dressed and outta there ASAP.
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Maggot: Actually, I'm not offended. I've been nibbling on worse.
oh, so thats why men leave so quickly instead of staying in bed and cuddling? Mystery solved.
Last edited by Robert&Ripley; 09-09-2015 at 05:44 PM..
Reason: didnt feel right
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