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Imagine that, you are not feeling fulfilling by using women who have slept with thousands of other men? Perhaps it's the fact that you have to pay for sex? Maybe it's that you are treating women like an objectified asset? Maybe it's the fact you have to hide your shady closet life of sleeping with hookers because for pete's sake YOU HAVE A JOB WITH A CHARITY ORGANIZATION!
See a psychiatrist. A therapist. Move. Make changes ASAP. First I'd start with your heart. You state not feeling fulfilled--> Pray. Pray for God to save you. Be saved. And ask for his forgiveness. Start there. Maybe then you will feel fulfilled.
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Originally Posted by Minntoaz
Imagine that, you are not feeling fulfilling by using women who have slept with thousands of other men? Perhaps it's the fact that you have to pay for sex? Maybe it's that you are treating women like an objectified asset? Maybe it's the fact you have to hide your shady closet life of sleeping with hookers because for pete's sake YOU HAVE A JOB WITH A CHARITY ORGANIZATION!
See a psychiatrist. A therapist. Move. Make changes ASAP. First I'd start with your heart. You state not feeling fulfilled--> Pray. Pray for God to save you. Be saved. And ask for his forgiveness. Start there. Maybe then you will feel fulfilled.
OP, from someone with experience, avoid this step. It is unnecessary, in fact may intensify this problem.
I'm confused about what the OP wants. Doesn't want to get married, have kids or have a long term relationship. Doesn't want the hassle of dating. I guess he just wants sex... for free.
What's wrong with wanting sex for free? Women get it. So why shouldn't men?
I don't think 7/11 food is fulfilling, but if I'm hungry and its the only place open.........
Many who go to working girls are those who have a hard time convincing non working girls to share a bed with them on a permanent basis.
If the average woman was not so picky, or wives/girlfriends weren't so with holding, hookers would be out of business.
Sadly, this is soo far from reality and the ugly truth. I am attractive and I have been cheated on and with prostitutes, I also have high sex drive etc and they still cheat. Fact: men cheat no matter what you look like, even if you have sex the way they want etc. It has nothing to do with that. A woman can go above and beyond and he could still like to cheat or be with other women and unfortunately so common. That cliche its hard to find a good man didnt come about for no reason. Besides every woman I know has woes about cheating men either past or present and trying to be loving, do everything they can and men still don't care, its so sad. Nothing could stop the cheating. Its like the men are spoiled, have little morals and don't care about relationships, just using women whether for sex, money, housework, fling, fun etc.
There are so many dating sites with desperate women looking for a man that values monogamy. also, even casual sex hookup sites with women just willing to throw themselves to any man for attention or sex, some are sluts who like to cheat, some single as well as those whose husbands or boyfriends aren't into them anymore. This is so common, its awful. This wife or gf withholding is such a myth and so is the picky part. There are more attractive women willing to be with less attractive men than the other way around, hence more male cheaters and philanderers anyways!!
I am a 27 y/o guy and for a long while i have been paying for the companionship of prostitutes. I used to enjoy it at first, but now i just don't feel fulfilled and in fact, i am starting to feel miserable about it all.
Not a thing wrong with that. I just found it amusing that the OP first claimed he wanted to "pursue a fulfilling relationship" and over the rest of his posts it became clear that he defines "fulfilling" as no dating (too much hassle), no long term relationships and definitely no kids. He shouldn't be shocked he can't find women with the same relationship in mind. Oh wait, he already has. They're called prostitutes.
Everything is so easy these days. There's no feeling of accomplishment! Sex on tap, food on tap and the rest of it. OP would probably think different if he worked hard to get a relationship like the rest of us. Try going out in the real world and meeting women face to face.
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