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Originally Posted by Minntoaz
Congratulations you've succeeded at stirring the pot. It's also funny that you write marriage favors lazy people with low self esteem when you have the time of day to write such an unintelligent piece that I hope you are joking. Look, it's evident you are burned and are the one with the issues. As for those of us who are happily married we pity you.
To say that people who are married have low self esteem is exactly opposite of why many people get married. We got sick of the dating, the constant pestering from the opposite sex and finally found someone who we wanted to share a life with because guess what?!!!! We are secure. We do not need constant validation (sexual or emotional) from new partners instead we realize there is something special about fostering a lifelong relationship with someone and actually build an emotional bond instead of surface level crap and move on to the next.
With no marriages people would take care of themselves? Are you kidding me. I take just as good or better than when I was single as do all my married friends. You are proving your stupidity with every word. Get out of your box and see the world. The real world.
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Holy cow. Why are you taking the OP'S comments so personally, and why do you feel the need to be so nasty? I don't agree with her premise, but I understand that she's reacting out of pain, frustration, and disillusionment. Her comments don't upset me any more than do the DOZENS of vociferously anti-marriage comments men post here EVERY week.
FYI: I have a number of family members and long-time friends my age (40s) who've never married, but I certainly don't think that's because they're insecure and need constant validation from new partners.That's really what you think about single people?
How are YOUR opinions, then, any more sensible than the OP's? I'm sorry, but your comments are no less judgmental and "unintelligent" than the original post. Perhaps you should heed some of your own advice.