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My personality seems to be an acquired taste.
I am either too religious or not religious enough or the wrong religion for many.
Probably other stuff too.
I am not into sexism against gals, misogyny, or rape/assault/domestics violence against gals apologism.
Plus in my opinion I have pretty high sexual criteria and have no interest in having sex if I do not orgasm from it. Since my orgasm is my responsibility I find it more logical to use something designed for my pleasure (masturbation) then bother with sex.
I am not into sexism against gals, misogyny, or rape/assault/domestics violence against gals apologism.
Plus in my opinion I have pretty high sexual criteria and have no interest in having sex if I do not orgasm from it. Since my orgasm is my responsibility I find it more logical to use something designed for my pleasure (masturbation) then bother with sex.
Read: I'm a hardcore feminist who sees sexism in everything and it's a huge turn off to most sane men.
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I'm single because I have cerebral palsy. Women don't want to be with a disabled man.
Or so they've told me.
Repeatedly.
I know 3 people with CP. 2 men and a lady. Guess which one is in a relationship? The lady has a mild form of CP that only affects the way she walks kind of wobbly. She's very outgoing, can drive and not bad looking. If I was a guy, I'd date her. She been in a relationship with a guy for awhile now. The men, their CP affects their life more. One guy I know quite well, he can't drive, his one hand is deformed from his CP. He desperately wants a gf but doesn't understand that most women don't want to date someone with CP. The other guy I don't know very well also has CP. He's also desperate for a gf and I declined when he asked me to go out with him.
Sorry, if it makes me shallow. I prefer men that are independent that can drive.
I know 3 people with CP. 2 men and a lady. Guess which one is in a relationship? The lady has a mild form of CP that only affects the way she walks kind of wobbly. She's very outgoing, can drive and not bad looking. If I was a guy, I'd date her. She been in a relationship with a guy for awhile now. The men, their CP affects their life more. One guy I know quite well, he can't drive, his one hand is deformed from his CP. He desperately wants a gf but doesn't understand that most women don't want to date someone with CP. The other guy I don't know very well also has CP. He's also desperate for a gf and I declined when he asked me to go out with him.
Sorry, if it makes me shallow. I prefer men that are independent that can drive.
Whats so bad about you being the driver? People with disabilities are PEOPLE with feelings too you know, and just because they can't (or don't) drive doesn't mean they aren't independent in other ways.
It sounds to me like you need some education on how to treat disabled people. You need to give the guy who asked you out a chance. Maybe it'll work out, maybe it won't. But the point is he deserves a chance. You might be surprised at what happens.
Incidentally, my own form if CP is similar to the lady you describe.
Whats so bad about you being the driver? People with disabilities are PEOPLE with feelings too you know, and just because they can't (or don't) drive doesn't mean they aren't independent in other ways.
It sounds to me like you need some education on how to treat disabled people. You need to give the guy who asked you out a chance. Maybe it'll work out, maybe it won't. But the point is he deserves a chance. You might be surprised at what happens.
Incidentally, my own form if CP is similar to the lady you describe.
How many disabled women have you pursued romantically? What were there responses?
I've known a couple of people with CP. They are happily married.
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