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Old 11-15-2015, 07:22 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Clark Park View Post
... because no body wants me.
Yeah, this. i was toyed with for a few months, and then I got rid of that distraction.

No one's really interested in this guy. That's a really bitter pill to swallow.

 
Old 11-15-2015, 07:25 PM
 
Location: LA, CA/ In This Time and Place
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I'm not meeting new people which is why I am currently single. I'm about to change that so I can be in a position to meet people.
 
Old 11-15-2015, 07:26 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Originally Posted by LowonLuck View Post
I was with the same guy for 10 years
Then my sons father for 7 years when he left me for another woman in June of 2014.

I dated a childhood friend from feb 2015- until August. And now happily dating a close friend that I had previously friend zoned.

So 4 relationships since 11th grade is a lot?

I did meet 61 guys in about 3 months, but to call them dates would be unfair. One guy drive to me to pump gas in my car, just to meet me. I would meet 2-3 guys in the same evening while at Starbucks. It was easy to meet a bunch. Most I could easily see we had no future in 5 minutes. No need to waste time on an actual date. I did not even kiss one of the 61.

I made the suggestion to find a single mom, because he is stuck on wanting kids and his chances are significantly low in his late 40's.
Wow, that's like 5 dates a week for 3 months Mon-Fri . And 2-3 guys the same evening? gawd damn! Lol

Where does taking care of your kids come into play?
 
Old 11-15-2015, 07:29 PM
 
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Originally Posted by LowonLuck View Post
I was with the same guy for 10 years
Then my sons father for 7 years when he left me for another woman in June of 2014.

I dated a childhood friend from feb 2015- until August. And now happily dating a close friend that I had previously friend zoned.

So 4 relationships since 11th grade is a lot?

I did meet 61 guys in about 3 months, but to call them dates would be unfair. One guy drive to me to pump gas in my car, just to meet me. I would meet 2-3 guys in the same evening while at Starbucks. It was easy to meet a bunch. Most I could easily see we had no future in 5 minutes. No need to waste time on an actual date. I did not even kiss one of the 61.

I made the suggestion to find a single mom, because he is stuck on wanting kids and his chances are significantly low in his late 40's.

I really, really, really don't need to know & don't want to know your story.
I'm just saying that any mom who's got kids under 18 years old at home should
be devoting her time to the kids.
Her time, her attention, her energy, & her money.
Not dating guy after guy looking for the next dude to foot the bills.
 
Old 11-15-2015, 07:48 PM
 
Location: Southern Colorado
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Why not?
 
Old 11-15-2015, 07:49 PM
 
Location: Oklahoma City, OK
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Originally Posted by LowonLuck View Post
What's wrong with loving kids that already exist? A man pushing 50 should move past the idea of having his own kids at that age.
Please do me a favor and stop responding to my posts. I feel bad enough about my age and not having a family without you piling on and making it worse.
 
Old 11-15-2015, 07:51 PM
 
Location: Oklahoma City, OK
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Originally Posted by believe007 View Post
See here's the thing.
Maybe that works for you, maybe not.
I've seen enough of your posts on here about your countless
failures in relationships to know that Atlguy (and everyone else) should never take your advice.
He already posted long ago that he tried it w/ a single mom & it wasn't good for him.
So knowing that- I'm not impressed that you spent a few days with some guys kids.
Really- I think you've even posted about being on like 60 dates in 2 or 3 months with men from OLD.
That speaks volumes about your priorities.
Thank you so much for this.
 
Old 11-15-2015, 08:21 PM
 
Location: Free From The Oppressive State
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Because I have incredibly bad luck with timing. After that, haven't met anyone else that clicks like that.
 
Old 11-15-2015, 08:37 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Originally Posted by Clark Park View Post
... because no body wants me.
You seem like a solid dude.. I'm surprised you're having problems... really.. I figure you'd be beating them off with a stick..... funny how this stuff works........

Hang in there I'm sure some good solid guy is in the mix.... keep your head up....
 
Old 11-15-2015, 08:39 PM
 
Location: california
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When your wearing a 10 years old Halloween disguise , It's really hard to find some one interested. And to be honest I'm not looking for a romantic relationship , just friends that communicate well.
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