Where do you find the good men? (older, attract, settle)
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I just see it as an issue of wanting to be with someone who shares your values and beliefs. It doesn't mean you have hatred/intolerance towards other groups just because you prefer not to date outside of your own.
every single one of you on this board does relatively "bad" things for your own reasons or reasons you would justify as doing so rightfully.
Does that automatically make you "good" people despite your personal flaws?
By definition alone, no.
To bring it full circle to the thread topic and why the OP seems to be having trouble finding "good" people....perhaps she needs to define what "good" actually means for her and if her lifestyle and character is actually indicative of what she wants to attract.
A racist is someone who feels that someone of a particular race are inferior solely because of said race. No other reason. How can someone who makes a snap judgment about an entire group of people be considered a person of good character? I could not date someone who was racist. I would not consider a racist relative a good person.
Seriously, someone straight out said that they were racist and you continued to date her??? She's a nice person otherwise...
For sure.
She's really hot and has the same hobbies as me. It's rare to find women who actually love hiking, biking and skiing. She's really feminine too which I like. She's never been around black people and grew up in Thailand. I don't think she hates them so much as she's uncomfortable around them. It's a little different upbringing, over time I feel like she'll adjust.
My grandparents are a little racist in the general sense but they get along individuals of all types. We have a mixed family and they are fine with that. It doesn't mean I'm going to cut contact with them because they don't see eye to eye with me. They're good people, just WAY different backgrounds and experiences. Sometimes during family get togethers they say pretty awful things while my BIL (He's Mexican) is around. He understands and kinda winks at us when they start their little political rants. Ha
Last edited by MarshallV84; 09-18-2015 at 01:38 PM..
I am done with losers, jerks and crazy men. I cannot take anymore of the nonsense.
Where do you find good ones? How do you know for certain they are good?
I have been spending time with a good friend and he is always right there for me and his actions show me he cares, but how do I know he wont suddenly change?
This is a big part of your problem right here. A town that size is not going to have a large selection to chose from. And the "good" ones you are looking for probably married their HS or college sweethearts.
And everyone probably knows everyone else...and they may know of the OP's lifestyle and penchant for drama.
And everyone probably knows everyone else...and they may know of the OP's lifestyle and penchant for drama.
Yeah, she needs to move to a larger city.
I am a farm raised, cowboy boot wearing country girl that has a very redneck profession. A big city would never be my style. I would rather be single on my 2 1/2 acres surrounded by farms, then move to a larger city.
I just see it as an issue of wanting to be with someone who shares your values and beliefs.
I'm pretty sure there are men outside my race who share my same value and beliefs. I'm not sure why there wouldn't be?
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