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Old 09-17-2015, 11:57 AM
 
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It's hard to do when you have feelings for them
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Old 09-17-2015, 11:59 AM
 
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It matters to me ..I just want closure before I can move on.
He clearly isn't happy
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Old 09-17-2015, 11:59 AM
 
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He has a gf and a baby( he got back with her when she found out she Was pregnant and moved in day after baby was born)
Back off, sister, he's already taken.

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I'm in love with him and he has pushed me away
Sounds like he's the only one with a head on his shoulders here.

Get your own man.
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Old 09-17-2015, 12:00 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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It's hard to do when you have feelings for them
Try.

Grow a backbone, and back off.

Just "letting it happen" doesn't absolve you of responsibility, either.
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Old 09-17-2015, 12:02 PM
 
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Well clearly he isn't in a happy relationship is he...should people really stay together and be miserable ?
My parents were divorced and they were happier separate
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Old 09-17-2015, 12:03 PM
 
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He has a baby and a girlfriend who is the baby mama? I'd move on. Don't bring any drama into your life. He sounds like a player. Very cheesy lines.
He is all wrong and she is making it exponentially worse.
If he cheats on the GF, he will cheat on this one, too.

Drink lots of coffee, wake up and smell the horsesh*t!!!!!!!!
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Old 09-17-2015, 12:05 PM
 
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Well clearly he isn't in a happy relationship is he...should people really stay together and be miserable ?
My parents were divorced and they were happier separate
You don't want to be the reason he breaks up his relationship.

If he's unhappy, it's up to him to deal with it. If he doesn't want to be married to this woman, he needs to be honest with her, and work out an arrangement where he can still be a part of his son's life.

You need to keep out of this mess.
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Old 09-17-2015, 12:08 PM
 
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Well clearly he isn't in a happy relationship is he...should people really stay together and be miserable ?
Not your monkey, not your circus. Stay out of it.
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Old 09-17-2015, 12:09 PM
 
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I know ..I won't contact him( I never do) and il just let him get on with his life.
Il look for someone else and in the future if things change well who knows.
Think I just wanted to know if his feelings were genuine or I had wasted my time falling for someone I shouldn't .
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Old 09-17-2015, 12:10 PM
 
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I think I thought if sex wasn't involved we weren't cheating ..or trying to delude myself into thinking that.
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