Great topic..........when first dating and the OP ask too personal a question right off the bat the are asking for a white lie
When we have been going for awhile 3 months over a year.........married and I/OP find out you lied about being at work when you really having happy hour after work with member of opposite sex we could have an issue
See the difference?
This is a fundamental problem of dating less days.............nobody follows the same code of behavior so it's a free for all and makes for a lot of interesting threads on CD