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They weren't long, one liners. She does seem interested and setup a date over two weeks in advance. I asked her what if she meets a better guy before then but she said won't happen and still wants to go lol.
That may not bother everyone.. But personally, that's one of my biggest pet peeves. People with Zero patience who end up having entire conversations w/ themselves before I can get around to joining in.
It would be too much for me, even if they're one-liners. I'd feel like an overeager puppy was jumping up and down at my ankles and I'd be waiting for the accident to happen.
I used to have a coworker like that, he'd send a text and if you didn't answer him back quickly, he'd start bombing you with texts asking if you got the last text.....
I don't know why she's so interested in me, it's not like we know each other all THAT well. How can I say this without coming across as an ass.....okay I've gotten this in the past but usually only from overweight women. She isn't overweight. She is 40 and I'm mid 30s so maybe she wants to date a younger guy.....I don' t know.
Here is my take. I am the type to occasionally send a few emails in short succession if I forgot to mention something. Or had a brainstorm. I tend to leave this behavior for people who know me well.
I don't like to send too many unaddressed messages in a row in case it puts someone I don't know well off. I'd send maybe 2 messages max and wait for your response.
Though I am more likely to send a couple of really short texts in a row than emails.
Once we know each other, and have established some "relationship" then I am not so concerned.
Ok, so this is what I'm talking about. I was busy all day. She sent messages at the following times:
12:14 AM
9:29 AM
1:20 PM
4:05 PM
6:15 PM
None of them were responded to because I was offline. and then at 7:59 sends a message "I am sorry, did I say something to upset you that you didn't email me all day? I hope not, because I really like you!!"
I don't know whether to be flattered or weirded out lol.
We've never met, had a phone conversation, or even texted. These are messages going back and forth on a dating site.
Ok, so this is what I'm talking about. I was busy all day. She sent messages at the following times:
12:14 AM
9:29 AM
1:20 PM
4:05 PM
6:15 PM
None of them were responded to because I was offline. and then at 7:59 sends a message "I am sorry, did I say something to upset you that you didn't email me all day? I hope not, because I really like you!!"
I don't know whether to be flattered or weirded out lol.
We've never met, had a phone conversation, or even texted. These are messages going back and forth on a dating site.
Run, Forrest, RUUUUUUNNNN!
First, she's hounding you.
Second, well, do you really need a second?
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