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I believe you need to break up with her in person not via text, email, or phone. The kindest way to do it is to say something like, "You're a wonderful person, but this just isn't working for me. It isn't what I want. I'm sorry and I wish you well." Then get out of there. Do not have a long discussion, do not bring up her faults, do not mention her possible personality disorder, just wish her well and get out. Any prolonged discussion or analysis of the relationship will only make things worse and messier. I understand this isn't easy, but don't take the cowards way out. Do it face to face and then move on.
I would recommend that you leave any armchair diagnosis of mental illness out of your discussion with her. As someone said in your previous thread, you should let her know that you feel it is not working out and wish her the best. I would normally advocate for having this discussion in person; however, if you are concerned that she is unstable, over the phone would be fine. Via text is not.
Breaking up in person is best. Be direct, truthful, but kind. If you are concerned about her reaction, I suggest breaking up with her in a public place.
Breaking up in person is best. Be direct, truthful, but kind. If you are concerned about her reaction, I suggest breaking up with her in a public place.
If you decide to do it in person, the above is great advice about meeting in a public place.
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