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Old 09-20-2015, 08:11 PM
 
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Has anyone been in this situation before?

You broke up with someone because he/she hasn't got over his/her ex, took you for granted, etc....
then the ex came back, saying they are sorry, realize he/she loves you after all, sorry he/she has been a jerk,

so, the question is, will you go back? Please explain your answer? Will you have any condition?
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Old 09-20-2015, 09:27 PM
 
Location: Pa
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No I won't.Found out he cheated on his wife.Yeah one condition, stay away from me.
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Old 09-20-2015, 10:52 PM
 
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No way, new is always better
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Old 09-20-2015, 10:59 PM
 
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By the time I break up with someone, I've run out of forgiveness and understanding, so there is no hope.
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Old 09-21-2015, 05:15 AM
 
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No I won't.Found out he cheated on his wife.Yeah one condition, stay away from me.
Yes, I see your point. The guy I talked about did not cheat, but still, he still had feeling for his ex while seeing me.



Mkokono..........yup.....every guy I dated since high school keeps getting better and better





Zennia......that is the case with me too, but for some reason, my stomach and chest still stir with this guy. But at the same time, I am quite tired with him.
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Old 09-21-2015, 05:51 AM
 
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Nope. He may be sorry, but he still hasnt gotten over his ex. Talk is cheap.
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Old 09-21-2015, 05:56 AM
 
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Absolutely not. He was obviously ready for a new romantic relationship and I would be in high protective mode if he came around again. In fact, I probably wouldn't ever be with him again for fear of getting hurt by him again. Too many others out there who are ready.
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Old 09-21-2015, 06:09 AM
 
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I have in the past, but never again. Nothing ever changed. If the guy's heart isn't totally on the woman he's with, if there is still a piece belonging to another woman, you're just going to be a place filler. I went on a 3 year roller coaster with such a man. My clue should have been when I would ask "do you want to go back with her?" his answer was always something like "what's the point, we'd only fight again". The right answer should have been "NO, I don't love her anymore". The fact he did not say that spoke volumes and in the end he ended up back with her.
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Old 09-21-2015, 06:14 AM
 
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Nope, bad idea.

Tried it, ended in disaster. It is best to end it and move on in dead of opening up old wounds.
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Old 09-21-2015, 06:16 AM
 
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No. I take a lot of time before I make a decision, reflecting on the pluses and minuses, but once I made up my mind, my decision is final. I don't keep in touch with ex-es either. People rarely change in such short time, and if something bothered you enough to break up with them, it probably will return at one time or another.
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