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The title says it all. I have never had a girlfriend before, not even one. The older I get, the more embarrassing and shameful it gets. It seems like I'm the only person who has never dated anyone at my age. Obviously that can't be 100% true but it seems like most people my age that I have come in contact with have dated before at least once. It's easy to say "Just go get one" but my situation is unique in that I literally have no female friends. I'm pretty shy and quiet as it is but I was never good at talking to girls. All of my friends are guys. That means I know no girls that would even be remotely interested in me. Also, you can't just walk to up a random girl and say "Hey, would you go out with me?" because you'd be a creep. I'm also not very physically attractive. How can I get a girlfriend or get girls to start liking me?
quite honestly the first girl I ever dated I married .. I was 26 .. don't fret it .. I have guy friends my age who have never dated and are perfectly happy ...
You're being overly dramatic. You and a ton of other kids haven't had a gf or bf at 18. Will you be going to college? You'll have 4 years of opportunity there. Be sure to join clubs and activities where you'll be working on projects alongside girls. It's so much easier to talk to people as a shy person when you're sharing an activity with them. If you're not going to college, join clubs and hobby groups, co-ed sports leagues, or do volunteering for orgs where you can meet women.
Don't shelter yourself and get out their and socialize with like minded people.
You cannot "find" what you seek if you never associate yourself with it.
You're being overly dramatic. You and a ton of other kids haven't had a gf or bf at 18. Will you be going to college? You'll have 4 years of opportunity there. Be sure to join clubs and activities where you'll be working on projects alongside girls. It's so much easier to talk to people as a shy person when you're sharing an activity with them. If you're not going to college, join clubs and hobby groups, co-ed sports leagues, or do volunteering for orgs where you can meet women.
I didn't really plan on it, I wanted to work after high school. Anyway, thanks and I will try to involve myself in things where I can be around girls and build my social skills.
I didn't really plan on it, I wanted to work after high school. Anyway, thanks and I will try to involve myself in things where I can be around girls and build my social skills.
Tech school? Community college? Not much out there for someone with no educatio6and no skills.
I was you at your age. Don't give up hope. Focus on things you are good at. Maybe start working out, work on your social skills, work hard at making money.
A good body, personality, and money will attract the ladies....
I'm well over 40 and have no problem getting women. Maybe hard finding a good one but, that's life.
Read books on being positive etc. Women love a positive , confident attitude , and learn to smile and NEVER complain you will be surprised how things can turn around
I was you at your age. Don't give up hope. Focus on things you are good at. Maybe start working out, work on your social skills, work hard at making money.
A good body, personality, and money will attract the ladies....
I want to attract girls but I would want them to want me for me instead of money.
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