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Haha! Getting a guy to marry you so he can have sex with you would be a disaster in the making. Who would want to marry a guy whose primary motivation is to have sex with you?
Unmet sexual longing is a powerful motivator for men and women alike. Many of our parents, and especially grandparents, had short courtships thanks to this natural force. Men who are getting their sexual needs met casually have fewer reasons to sign up for all the responsibilities of marriage.
Sex should flow from a godly relationship. It was designed to sweeten a life of commitment. When couples partake of it prematurely, it tends to sicken, much like eating dessert before you’ve had dinner. Many Christians who’ve had premarital sex eventually marry; but this does little to alleviate their consciences and often results in disaster.
I find it hard to believe this antiquated belief is part of the issue. Now the better question, would any man in this day and age accept that I decided to stop having premarital sex and wait until marriage?
That seems more like some elaborate scene to get a man to marry you for what, sex? Lol
Should work out
I wouldn't hold out for marriage, that's just me though. What if you get married and find out you're not sexually compatible? I could also have more fun dating someone that's not such a prude!
I mean, I'll wait quite a few dates and definitely get to know them first, but waiting till marriage just seems absurd
Unmet sexual longing is a powerful motivator for men and women alike. Many of our parents, and especially grandparents, had short courtships thanks to this natural force. Men who are getting their sexual needs met casually have fewer reasons to sign up for all the responsibilities of marriage.
Sex should flow from a godly relationship. It was designed to sweeten a life of commitment. When couples partake of it prematurely, it tends to sicken, much like eating dessert before you’ve had dinner. Many Christians who’ve had premarital sex eventually marry; but this does little to alleviate their consciences and often results in disaster.
I find it hard to believe this antiquated belief is part of the issue. Now the better question, would any man in this day and age accept that I decided to stop having premarital sex and wait until marriage?
While I truly respect your commitment to stay a virgin until marriage...one thing that jumps out to me..kinda indicates those "Spoiled" are somehow unclean and discarded with distain.
The reason I say that..Far too many young girls/women were rapped by a father/opportunistic male/trickster's who drug or gang up on a young lady in some Frat House...Are these girls/young women doomed and branded???
IMO..NO..because what happen to them was not wilful...but in reality a crime perpetuated against them..but yet some continually Judge and paint with broad brush as Sinful and unworthy as human beings...Even the Pope declares.."Who am I to Judge" but doesn't stop opinionated types to declare ALL are somehow at fault or worst..declared "Whor3's" ..
Haha! Getting a guy to marry you so he can have sex with you would be a disaster in the making. Who would want to marry a guy whose primary motivation is to have sex with you?
Might be better than the ex that decided we have no future together, but called to ask if sex was still an option.
While I truly respect your commitment to stay a virgin until marriage...one thing that jumps out to me..kinda indicates those "Spoiled" are somehow unclean and discarded with distain.
The reason I say that..Far too many young girls/women were rapped by a father/opportunistic male/trickster's who drug or gang up on a young lady in some Frat House...Are these girls/young women doomed and branded???
IMO..NO..because what happen to them was not wilful...but in reality a crime perpetuated against them..but yet some continually Judge and paint with broad brush as Sinful and unworthy as human beings...Even the Pope declares.."Who am I to Judge" but doesn't stop opinionated types to declare ALL are somehow at fault or worst..declared "Whor3's" ..
Oh just to be clear, I have not been a virgin in well over 2 decades. I have kids so no hiding it either.
Oh god, I don't have a religious bone in my body. Someone said I needed religion in my life, so I went and bought a church pew for my foyer. That will have to do.
So then why are you reading and quoting from a religious site?
I and my wife remained a virgin till married and it was no problem for the either of us.
Honor God with your life and have his blessing , dishonor God with your life and have his judgment.
At this point I am willing to research possible issues. I have had enough of being the source of the dating jokes,while everyone else is happily married with normal family lives.
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