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Old 09-23-2015, 08:51 PM
 
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I've gotten to know everybody at my job pretty well and I observe everyone pretty closely. It's unbelievable how easy dating is for the women at my job, not one of them particularly decent looking


There is one girl, a blonde who is probably 40 lbs overweight with just horrible looking acne. She is a nice person so I can't say anything bad about her character but her intelligence is highly questionable, makes no money because she has no idea what she's doing. She has a tall good looking white boy friend - she was being pursued hard by another decent looking tall white guy with a pretty good job. Another one of my co workers is a very average looking single mom, chain smoker, very annoying voice, very average figure. She's playing 4-5 dudes at a time, getting dates constantly and being asked out constantly. I think she's sleeping with 3 different guys right now. It just blows my mind


The male equivalent of this just doesn't exist. There are no big guys with horrible acne dating good looking tall white women. Has it always been like this? It seems like dating is getting more and more lopsided - male 9s have to settle for female 6s, female 3's think they should be getting male 8s. Why is this?


I can kill myself to have a nice looking physique, a perfect complexion, a legit college degree, a 180K a year job, the latest in fashionable outfits, etc... etc... etc... and not have 1/10th the dating options as a girl who is like a 3/10 with zero accomplishments whatsoever.

 
Old 09-23-2015, 08:54 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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The cold hard truth is that women have the initial advantage. Just in that more guys are chasing women, and women don't need to do as much of that chasing.

In terms of finding good mates to settle down with and marry, it's even at that point.
 
Old 09-23-2015, 08:55 PM
 
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Where is this place? I seem to notice the opposite.
 
Old 09-23-2015, 08:56 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Oh hey, Hustler! I was wondering where you've been.
 
Old 09-23-2015, 08:57 PM
 
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Oh hey, Hustler! I was wondering where you've been.

 
Old 09-23-2015, 09:00 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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I can kill myself to have a nice looking physique, a perfect complexion, a legit college degree, a 180K a year job, the latest in fashionable outfits, etc... etc... etc... and not have 1/10th the dating options as a girl who is like a 3/10 with zero accomplishments whatsoever.
Thanks, I about choked on my dinner reading this. Lmao
 
Old 09-23-2015, 09:00 PM
 
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Because women are in fact the top of the proverbial food chain on this planet. Men are next in line.
 
Old 09-23-2015, 09:01 PM
 
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Because women are in fact the top of the proverbial food chain on this planet. Men are next in line.

Why is this?


I'm better than women my age in just about everything across the board, not saying it to be an arrogant but I've never met a woman my age who can match me in everything like education, income, success, etc...
 
Old 09-23-2015, 09:01 PM
 
Location: Kingstowne, VA
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Oh please. Dating, trying to be desireable to and meet someone who is worth a darn is hard for everyone, obviously. Wake up.
 
Old 09-23-2015, 09:02 PM
 
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Guess the V shaped torso doesn't rake em in, eh?
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