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I didn't say I deserve to have an intimate relationship with a specific person... I said I deserve to have a relationship with someone I find attractive and I believe everyone deserves that.
How on God's green earth do you deserve to have a relationship?
Listen, you are perfectly entitled to your preferences. Everyone is. But how does that then translate to that because you are a living being, you deserve to have a relationship with someone you find attractive? You're "qualified" for it? You "merit" it?
You might want to think about not considering a potential partner as a piece of chattel that you "deserve".
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Originally Posted by brantleygilbert
Deserve =/= entitled. You keep thinking that I'm saying i'm entitled to it
Again, pursuant to dictionary.com--
entitled (verb)-- to give (a person or thing) a title, right, or claim to something; furnish with grounds for laying claim:
Because a woman your age wouldn't be able to deal with your narcissism, and wont. Too many good guys out there to deal with you and your personaslity
If anything I think that's why he's getting the cougars and gay men. If I were either of those, on the prowl, I'd want to hook up with someone shallow and uncomplicated. Very casual.
when did I insinuate that? I want a girlfriend my age, not a woman 20 years older
the ladies my age are seemingly impossible to please
No matter what anyone one says to you in any of your numerous threads, you don't take any responsibility for anything. And anytime anyone suggest that the problem may have something to do with you - you refute it by saying how good looking, successful, and perfect you are. And now you are talking about how some older woman just LOVED you and couldn't say enough great things about you - so obviously, you still don't believe that the problem is you. According to you - the problem is that women aren't interesting, they have it too easy, they are too hard to please, and so on and so forth. Well, guess what? Most guys don't have a problem dating - no matter what they look like or how much money they have. So quit starting thread after thread when they are all exactly the same. The problem is you and until you get that - things are never going to get any easier. They just aren't. And I know I'll probably get infracted for this even though almost everyone else tells you the exact same thing and their posts are still there - but it's the truth.
If anything I think that's why he's getting the cougars and gay men. If I were either of those, on the prowl, I'd want to hook up with someone shallow and uncomplicated. Very casual.
except that nearly all of those women wanted to date me long term
the 29 year old was crazy about me, she wouldn't stop blowing up my phone for a while
I don't think you will ever be able to compete with the top 20%, which is what you need to get the type of woman you want.
Oh come on. All he's looking for is someone who's a 7/10 or above, likes working out, is a foodie but has a great body, likes football and baseball but is feminine, doesn't have a competitive high powered job but isn't a gold digger, and watches all the TV shows he likes. Why is that so wrong?
I don't think you will ever be able to compete with the top 20%, which is what you need to get the type of woman you want.
Everything I strive for in life, I strive for top 1 to top 5%...not this top 20% nonsense. Being top 20% is easy
In terms of money and success for example, I won't stop until I'm making close to 500-800K a year. That's not top 1%, that's more like top 0.1%
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