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Like the other poster said, I'll work on my cardio lol. Many men would love that problem.
Don't try to make yourself do something you don't really want just to prove something. My husband and I are going through the aftermath of my emotional affair, an affair that happened because my sex drive is extremely high and his isn't, so instead of pushing him to step up I made the bad decision to find the attention I craved sexually through an online relationship. Sure, it was exciting and fun but I developed feelings for this other guy and had to tell my husband. He acts like he's forgiven me, but now he's trying to satisfy me every day. I feel like he's trying too hard to prove his masculinity to me because of my mistake and it just makes me feel worse.
OP, your profile strikes me as a bit shallow and one-dimensional. Quality women usually seek more depth. You sound younger than 32... If I did not know your age, then I would have guessed you were no more than mid-20s.
What do you offer besides a supposedly great body, money and the status of college degrees and a career? Your profile sounds kind of boring.... You don't have an engaging personality coming through. What is it like to interact with you in person? Quality women want someone they enjoy being around, not a trophy. You will attract women seeking validation or financial support through a "trophy husband" if you do not offer something more than "status" attributes.
Don't try to make yourself do something you don't really want just to prove something. My husband and I are going through the aftermath of my emotional affair, an affair that happened because my sex drive is extremely high and his isn't, so instead of pushing him to step up I made the bad decision to find the attention I craved sexually through an online relationship. Sure, it was exciting and fun but I developed feelings for this other guy and had to tell my husband. He acts like he's forgiven me, but now he's trying to satisfy me every day. I feel like he's trying too hard to prove his masculinity to me because of my mistake and it just makes me feel worse.
I'm doing it because I want to do it.. Sorry about your problems though.
Don't try to make yourself do something you don't really want just to prove something. My husband and I are going through the aftermath of my emotional affair, an affair that happened because my sex drive is extremely high and his isn't, so instead of pushing him to step up I made the bad decision to find the attention I craved sexually through an online relationship. Sure, it was exciting and fun but I developed feelings for this other guy and had to tell my husband. He acts like he's forgiven me, but now he's trying to satisfy me every day. I feel like he's trying too hard to prove his masculinity to me because of my mistake and it just makes me feel worse.
Was someone blackmailing you? If yes, you did the right thing. If no, you were wrong to bring your husband into what was "your mistake". However, if doing so has in fact caused him to "step up his game" why feel bad? Maybe he is trying too hard at the moment. I think he would have to be made out of wood not to have been affected by what has happened. It will taper off. How much so depends a lot on you.
I refuse to believe that a person, no matter how amazingly handsome, financially secure and physically fit... I refuse to believe that in seven years of hard dating that such a man could not find a single woman worthy of a long term relationship. I can believe that they might think so. The two are not the same thing.
Was someone blackmailing you? If yes, you did the right thing. If no, you were wrong to bring your husband into what was "your mistake". However, if doing so has in fact caused him to "step up his game" why feel bad? Maybe he is trying too hard at the moment. I think he would have to be made out of wood not to have been affected by what has happened. It will taper off. How much so depends a lot on you.
This thread isn't about me. Check my blog if you are really curious.
OP, your profile strikes me as a bit shallow and one-dimensional. Quality women usually seek more depth. You sound younger than 32... If I did not know your age, then I would have guessed you were no more than mid-20s.
What do you offer besides a supposedly great body, money and the status of college degrees and a career? Your profile sounds kind of boring.... You don't have an engaging personality coming through. What is it like to interact with you in person? Quality women want someone they enjoy being around, not a trophy. You will attract women seeking validation or financial support through a "trophy husband" if you do not offer something more than "status" attributes.
100% agree.
Men like the OP complain about attracting women who are gold diggers or shallow yet that is the EXACT same energy that they are also tossing out into the dating universe.
In his profile he is marketing sex appeal and materialism and that is exactly what he is attracting. The type of women that he wants would NEVER respond to him because he seems arrogant and lacks substance.
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