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Backstory: I'm 32, Male, Black, and just about 98% of the women I come across say I'm attractive physically, mentally, financially and personality wise. I'm also GOOD in bed. I have an MBA, good career, my finances are great, I stay in the Suburbs, I workout and have a 6 pack as well. I'm solid all the way around.
I have been dating consistently for the last 7 years, woman after woman on a quest to find someone of quality to build something long term with. Long story short, I found no one even CLOSE to it. There's been consistently FOUR types of women I have ran across:
- Type 1: Her interest at the time is great, good finances, no kids, smart, but she's OVERWEIGHT to the point of when she takes her clothes off, I get turned off. She looks better in clothes than outside of them.
- Type 2: This chick here looks good in clothes and outside, her interest at the time is great, but her issue is that she's BROKE as hell with extreme financial problems. I'm talking about so extreme to where I would literally need to become her "daddy" and she become my dependent.
- Type 3: This chick here usually looks good in clothes and outside, no kids, smart, finances good, but she has mixed signals like hell. I mean literally, she likes me Monday, hates me Tuesday, so so likes me Wednesday, likes me again on Thursday, hates me again on Friday.
- Type 4: The same as Type 3, but add ON TOP of that, she is a gold-digger and consistently seeks to try to get money out of me.
For 7 years, this has been my results. I meet women everywhere, from stores, to clubs, to networking events, to online. Same.....damn.....results.
I've had enough. I'm fed up. All I'm looking for is a balanced woman that has good interest, good finances, no kids, smart, AND she looks good. You don't have to be a damn fitness model, but you also DON'T have to be 350lbs either.
So I've scheduled the Vasectomy on October 30th. I will continue to date and screw around with these chicks, but I can't invest anything into them for the long term to build anything.
So I opted out of Marriage alongside this deal.
I'm making this thread for you guys to see my situation and see if others are going through the SAME thing I'm going through? I have no issues posting my pictures for you guys on here so you can see what I look like.
Welcome to 2015. That's how it is. For both sides.
You forgot type 5 who just disappears after showing great interest and you have no clue where and when it went wrong. I am still guessing there are aliens around lately who just kidnap all the guys who liked me.
Welcome to 2015. That's how it is. For both sides.
You forgot type 5 who just disappears after showing great interest and you have no clue where and when it went wrong. I am still guessing there are aliens around lately who just kidnap all the guys who liked me.
My suggestion: use a condom.
And yes, a picture would be nice.
Yes, I've had that situation as well but mainly from Online though. The chick texts me her number, then disappears.
32 is waaaaay too young to give up. You're just a kid. What's the point of a vasectomy? Most men get snipped because they are married, have had kids and don't want any more under any circumstance. Getting a vasectomy because you haven't met someone by your early thirties makes no sense. If you really wanted to do that you'd just do it; you wouldn't post a thread about it. I think you posted a thread because you want to be talked out of it. I don't think I can do that because I don't know you personally, but I can tell you that 32 is very very young. Enjoy your youth, don't get a vasectomy and don't throw in the towel because mrs. right hasn't appeared yet. Did I mention that you are really young?
Last thing I'm going to do is take a knife to my gnads because I can't find the right woman, especially at 32. But that's just me.
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