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Old 09-29-2015, 01:31 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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Im someone who hates hugging; so my advice is NO pressure at all just wrap your arms around her no body thrust. That way she has less a case of sexual harassment charges.
Sad. Hugs are awesome! As long as you know the person!

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LOL, no... I'm actually sort of uncomfortable with full body hugs, we used to have a friend of ours and she was big chested and she'd give everyone the big full-smash-your-boobs against ya hugs... LOL, man or woman it didn't matter.

I was just trying to make a joke,

I guess the key words being 'trying to"
LOL! I know the struggle #bigboobproblems

I have a fellow busty friend, who is my height, and for some reason, one of her friends thought we were a lesbian couple! We tried to demonstrate via a hug why it would be a bad fit. We were like see...our boobs get in the way of intimacy!
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Old 09-29-2015, 01:40 PM
 
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I've no problem gauging how much pressure to use when hugging a woman who's not my SO. My question is: where do I put my tongue while hugging said person?
In her ear.
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Old 09-29-2015, 01:43 PM
 
Location: Richmond VA
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The best gauge is how tightly is she embracing YOU? THen make it match.

Most women would not want their boobs touched/squished except by someone they were intimate with.
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Old 09-29-2015, 01:47 PM
 
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If you hug her like this:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jPdHaNr0OAY

You are doing it wrong.
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Old 09-29-2015, 01:51 PM
 
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Thanks for the replies peeps! I'm glad I could inspire such an entertaining and positive thread!!

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Unless it's your mom or grandma, WHEN would you need to "embrace" a woman who is not your wife or GF???

... Huh? I'm always looking to find an excuse to embrace a woman whenever she feels it's appropriate. Unless I'm reaching down and trying to wrap one of her legs around me, who cares?

Since other people told their story, I'll tell mine. I remember this one woman I hugged on her wedding day, she had a backless wedding dress and her back skin was so soft and plushy, it was unbelievable.... Man it was hot, I did it right in front of her newly wedded husband too. I wonder how she got moisturizing lotion on her back, or maybe her skin is just naturally that soft and touchable? She wasn't fat or anything, she just had nice supple skin that I'm sure her groom thoroughly enjoyed later on that night.... FML!!!!
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Old 09-29-2015, 01:53 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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Since other people told their story, I'll tell mine. I remember this one woman I hugged on her wedding day, she had a backless wedding dress and her back skin was so soft and plushy, it was unbelievable.... Man it was hot, I did it right in front of her newly wedded husband too. I wonder how she got moisturizing lotion on her back, or maybe her skin is just naturally that soft and touchable? She wasn't fat or anything, she just had nice supple skin that I'm sure her groom thoroughly enjoyed later on that night.... FML!!!!
Well, it rubs the lotion on its skin or it gets the hose again.
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Old 09-29-2015, 01:53 PM
 
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I've been told I have soft skin, but never plushy? Sounds like a stuffed animal!
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Old 09-29-2015, 01:54 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Thanks for the replies peeps! I'm glad I could inspire such an entertaining and positive thread!!



... Huh? I'm always looking to find an excuse to embrace a woman whenever she feels it's appropriate. Unless I'm reaching down and trying to wrap one of her legs around me, who cares?

Since other people told their story, I'll tell mine. I remember this one woman I hugged on her wedding day, she had a backless wedding dress and her back skin was so soft and plushy, it was unbelievable.... Man it was hot, I did it right in front of her newly wedded husband too. I wonder how she got moisturizing lotion on her back, or maybe her skin is just naturally that soft and touchable? She wasn't fat or anything, she just had nice supple skin that I'm sure her groom thoroughly enjoyed later on that night.... FML!!!!
Thank God you came back, OP. You almost sent the forum into a tailspin.

Ok, look, I'm from the South, where we hug everybody.

I had a feeling your post wasn't ... made in earnest, so I dug around for your motive. It's clear since you singled out my reply that I must not have been too far from the truth.
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Old 09-29-2015, 02:05 PM
 
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The best gauge is how tightly is she embracing YOU? THen make it match.

Most women would not want their boobs touched/squished except by someone they were intimate with.
IDK, its kind of fun. Sometimes I just like to make people uncomfortable. Not to sound ugly but if you have ever been hugged by a person that is mentally disabled, in a good way, well they are often very affectionate and strong. I like to throw my arms around people as tight as possible squishing my boobs against them and hold on for a long time.
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Old 09-29-2015, 02:33 PM
 
Location: IN>Germany>ND>OH>TX>CA>Currently NoVa and a Vacation Lake House in PA
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Thanks for the replies peeps! I'm glad I could inspire such an entertaining and positive thread!!
"Inspire" is a stretch...

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I remember this one woman I hugged on her wedding day, she had a backless wedding dress and her back skin was so soft and plushy, it was unbelievable.... Man it was hot, I did it right in front of her newly wedded husband too. I wonder how she got moisturizing lotion on her back, or maybe her skin is just naturally that soft and touchable? She wasn't fat or anything, she just had nice supple skin that I'm sure her groom thoroughly enjoyed later on that night.... FML!!!!
"It puts the lotion on its skin!" -Buffalo Bill

Is anyone else a little freaked out by this?
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