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I bring this question up because its a situation one of my close female friends is in. She's in her early 30's and single. She's one of those types of women who are afraid growing old and being lonely. So yesterday we were having a casual convo via text and she made reference to "shedding things from the past". So I replied and stated..."You can start with that silly tattoo you have". I then proceeded to tell her that its going to be hard for a man to take you serious with such a tattoo. It's a very small tattoo that's easy to go over or get rid of. Anyway she took offense to my comment but I dont see where or how I'm wrong. I told her that it's only going to send the message of either you're not over him, or you're still dealing with him.
Am I wrong? Also, would you get serious with someone who still bears the name of their ex tattooed on their body?
I'm not 'in' to tattoos for the most part but being that it is commonplace I can get over it. Anyway, I would be put-off by it primarily because 'name' tattoos are cheesy. With that said, I think your approach was harsh and I can see why she was offended.
there it was. at the beach, or just hanging out, or in bed sleeping or while being intimate. ex-wifes name right there on his arm. and then of course other people seeing it. it just made me really uncomfortable.
My ex had a tattoo of his ex on his arm. He told me he got it after they broke up. He said it was more of a friendship thing or whatever. I thought that was extremely weird and definitely got jealous sometimes.
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