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You have an agenda against marriage and no real understanding of human motivation so I'm not surprised at all by your response
No, I have an agenda against people like you who obviously don't respect their marriage vows and are dishonest. I feel sorry for your husband or maybe I don't. A lot of men out there deserve people like you because they are idiots themselves.
No, I have an agenda against people like you who obviously don't respect their marriage vows and are dishonest. I feel sorry for your husband or maybe I don't. A lot of men out there deserve people like you because they are idiots themselves.
You are not being very fair.
Op is honest and I believe she wants to fix her marriage. She never slept with the guy and she stopped the relationship before it is too late.
Everybody makes mistakes, people deserve a second chance. NO?
You don't get to choose who you fall in love with (develop feelings for).
However, you do get to choose what you do with it.
No ****, you said it. I never thought at my age, with three kids and 10 years of marriage I'd ever have feelings for anyone else.
I don't know why I thought myself immune, but I am obviously not. However this guy will always be with me, no other man outside my marriage will ever measure up.
No, I have an agenda against people like you who obviously don't respect their marriage vows and are dishonest. I feel sorry for your husband or maybe I don't. A lot of men out there deserve people like you because they are idiots themselves.
So people deserve to be hurt for being stupid?? I guess I should be thankful I'm not a complete idiot.
You seem like a real mensch, a real peach of a guy.
Do you want to stay with your husband who you've been with for years?
Or....
Do you want to leave for a possibility?
I don't want to leave my husband. He's wonderful.
I could see myself with the other guy though if both of us weren't already taken. No matter how hurt I am about this, he truly is a lot of what I would want in a man.
I'm married, he's married. We never had sex, we kept away from each other physically but we crossed the line emotionally.
I've blocked him on social media and deleted any pics and messages, but I'm literally torn apart inside. I'm still in love with him. This just happened and I didn't want it to, so that's probably why it is so hard for me.
I was angry and mean to him when he said he needed to back off, so I could give him a reason to write me off easier and move on, if he even cares that is. For all I know he never really loved me like he said, but I want to believe he did. I don't want to be the reason he has problems in his marriage.
I seriously can't breathe, I'm bawling my eyes out and I don't know that this feeling will ever go away. I can't tell anyone, I'm all alone in this.
How do you get over someone who you can't hate?
You cheated and you want sympathy because you are in pain?
AWW.........
Imagine the pain you and your cheating friend have caused your spouses.
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