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Old 10-03-2015, 07:16 PM
 
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Very rarely do I personally see an attractive woman with a guy that's below average in looks. But online I always hear of people say that they have a friend or someone they know that's not attractive but has a lot of confidence, good personality, etc. that's with a good looking woman. But do those relationships ever last for the long term since I rarely ever see it myself? I just always usually see attractive women with attractive men, average women with average men, below average women with average or below average men. But it's extremely rare to see attractive women with below average men & just occasionally see them with average men.
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Old 10-03-2015, 07:19 PM
 
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Very rarely do I personally see an attractive woman with a guy that's below average in looks. But online I always hear of people say that they have a friend or someone they know that's not attractive but has a lot of confidence, good personality, etc. But do those relationships ever last for the long term since I rarely ever see it myself? I just always usually see attractive women with attractive men, average women with average men, below average women with average or below average men. But it's extremely rare to see attractive women with below average men & just occasionally see them with average men.
Depends on where you are. I see it pretty often where I am, particularly among the upper-middle class (and what I see of the upper class). Money usually makes the difference, although a man successful in any field can have the same effect. A successful man will usually be a confident man, and confidence seems to be attractive to women.
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Old 10-03-2015, 07:20 PM
 
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Depends on where you are. I see it pretty often where I am, particularly among the upper-middle class (and what I see of the upper class). Money usually makes the difference, although a man successful in any field can have the same effect.
Well having money is pretty much the cliched answer, but is it usually the case all or most of the time?
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Old 10-03-2015, 07:22 PM
 
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Usually the man has a lot of money, power, and prestige. The woman usually is from more humble circumstances and poorly connected to the elite.
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Old 10-03-2015, 07:24 PM
 
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Usually the man has a lot of money, power, and prestige. The woman usually is from more humble circumstances and poorly connected to the elite.
How is the woman humble if she's just with him for his money & power? I figured the comments would all be that it's about money which I'm not surprised about at all.
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Old 10-03-2015, 07:26 PM
 
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They like each other?
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Old 10-03-2015, 07:29 PM
 
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Attraction is subjective, and attraction also includes the person as a whole...looks AND personality.
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Old 10-03-2015, 07:31 PM
 
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Theres always more to dating than just looking good
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Old 10-03-2015, 07:33 PM
 
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Theres always more to dating than just looking good
I suppose, but it just seems it's rare to see it happen.
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Old 10-03-2015, 07:35 PM
 
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Is because they are soul mates

hahahaha Not a chance. In the bigger cities NYC, London, Paris, etc money talks
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