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Old 10-08-2015, 10:23 PM
 
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So, me and this guy have been chatting on Facebook non-stop and we've hung out 3 times so far. I've noticed that when we hang out he would be over protective of me when it come to crossing the street, he would make up something so he can touch my hand and at times he would but his arm over me. On Facebook sometimes we would send love stickers (those stickers with hearts and other stuff) and yeah we enjoy talking and seeing each other.

He recently told me about a girl in his past that currently asked him out and he doesn't know whether to accept or not because he is kinda confused with his past with her.He admitted that he wants to say yes but no at the same time. I just want to know if I was being used or if he doesn't have an interest in me.
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Old 10-09-2015, 08:43 AM
 
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He doesn't
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Old 10-09-2015, 09:02 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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So, me and this guy have been chatting on Facebook non-stop and we've hung out 3 times so far. I've noticed that when we hang out he would be over protective of me when it come to crossing the street, he would make up something so he can touch my hand and at times he would but his arm over me. On Facebook sometimes we would send love stickers (those stickers with hearts and other stuff) and yeah we enjoy talking and seeing each other.

SOUNDS GREAT!!!

He recently told me about a girl in his past that currently asked him out and he doesn't know whether to accept or not because he is kinda confused with his past with her.He admitted that he wants to say yes but no at the same time. WTF??????????? I just want to know if I was being used or if he doesn't have an interest in me.
He is not interested. Why would he even tell you about the other girl???.
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Old 10-09-2015, 09:27 AM
 
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I can answer that. He is gauging your interest in him by how you react to someone else being interested in him. Girly game playing. I suggest countering that with absolute honesty. How DO you feel about it? Tell him.
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Old 10-09-2015, 09:33 AM
 
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He's playing games. Cut him loose.
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Old 10-09-2015, 10:17 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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He's playing games. Cut him loose.
yeah!!!
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Old 10-09-2015, 10:45 AM
 
Location: east coast
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So, me and this guy have been chatting on Facebook non-stop and we've hung out 3 times so far. I've noticed that when we hang out he would be over protective of me when it come to crossing the street, he would make up something so he can touch my hand and at times he would but his arm over me. On Facebook sometimes we would send love stickers (those stickers with hearts and other stuff) and yeah we enjoy talking and seeing each other.

He recently told me about a girl in his past that currently asked him out and he doesn't know whether to accept or not because he is kinda confused with his past with her.He admitted that he wants to say yes but no at the same time. I just want to know if I was being used or if he doesn't have an interest in me.
Well, now you know how a man feels when he gets put in the friend zone when he didn't pull the trigger.

Also, it's another way of getting you jelly aka jealous. I am sure you know what that is as well because woman make stuff up to get men jealous all too often.

Now, you need to be a 2015 equal and talk to him. Let him know how you feel. Cause as per him, he is thinking you are suppose to be his equal and have equal say in the matter.
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Old 10-09-2015, 10:52 AM
 
Location: east coast
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He's playing games. Cut him loose.
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yeah!!!
Don't be so quick to turn people away. You don't know how old they are. Both men and women of age still play these silly games.

Cutting loose is not the answer to every issue. They have history and have a good connection. Don't be starting trouble you hear...
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Old 10-09-2015, 10:54 AM
 
Location: east coast
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Bottom line, ole dude is a girly girl. If you want the long D, you are going to have to work for it. It doesn't seem that he has the bollz.
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Old 10-09-2015, 11:12 AM
 
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Then tell him not to accept the date with her but it sounds like you have been friend zoned.
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