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I'm actually very well dressed, I typically wear a suit to work, and even when casual I still dress fairly well, I wear mostly Ralph Lauren, Ted baker, ect... I regularly get haircuts, trim my nails ect... I workout and am in great shape, I don't think it's the way I present myself. But yea I'll try going some groups at my school and I'll check meetup "I'm assuming you mean meetup.com".
Yes, I was thinking of Meetup.com, but that's really just shorthand for anything that would interest you. Join a book club or take a food class - both likely to have a lot of women. Or volunteer for a political candidate.
And by presentation, that includes a range of other things besides your clothes: Your smile, your handshake, your grammar, your posture. But maybe you just need to meet more people.
Send random letters to random addresses or text random phone numbers and try to find the women who are holed up in their rooms.
It sounds creepy but I found my first job doing a similar sort of thing and the results were often good even if they were not in a position to give me a job.
What's funny is I have a lot of money, more than 99% of people my age. And I'm in peak shape "I eat healthy and exercise daily" I'm fairly certain on scale of 1-10 I'd be at least a 7 in terms of looks. I can send a pic, actually I'd like for someone to honestly tell me if I'm overestimating myself b/c I don't think I am. In HS several attractive girls hit on me and tried to date me, I was just super socially awkward. Now I'm perfectly comfortable with interacting with people however meeting women is much more challenging than it was back then.
Feel free to post of send me a picture of yourself. I will give you an objective opinion.
Please feel free to post or IM the following stats about you:
-Height
-Race
-Gross annual income
-Money in your accounts
-Debts
-Houses, cars, apartments, or anything of substantial value that you might own
-Your actual profession
Dude, stop putting women on such an high pedestal. we are just normal people like yourself. It seem like when you're out with a beautiful girl who you might have some real interest in you get all tongue tied and your self confidence drops. Just think of her as anyone else.
Now stop being this sweet, lovie dovie guy. Women love to have FUN yes FUn. so make your conversation very Fun and interesting. Don't talk about computer and geeky stuff. Learn how to make a woman laugh and subtlety drop little sexual innuendos. nothing to overbearing just try to use sexual sarcasms.
So just look at a woman as being normal and if she isn't interested have the confidence to know you she did you a favour. She doesn't worth your time. You just got to have that confidence and at 21 just relax and enjoy life. Rent one of those expensive sports car for a day and have some fun.
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