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I met this guy [27M] at a bar about 3 weeks ago. (I'm a 21 year old female)
I don't want to get bashed on here for being a **** or being 'easy' because I made an honest mistake that I didn't realize was a bad choice at the time and I understand that now. I went with my gut feeling and my gut was wrong.
Basically, this guy and I have been texting every single day since we met and had gone on 2 dates. He had slept over my house after both dates but all we did was talk/cuddle.
Then on Friday night we had sex. It just happened. He left my house Saturday morning and didn't text me all day even though he said he would. I texted him at 9pm saying hey and he said he was out with his friends etc. He never replied to my last text after about 10-12 exchanges. I just got a text from him 20 minutes ago but I didn't read it and I don't want to respond regardless.
I can already sense that I've been played. I don't think this guy wants anything for me anymore except sex and I feel that way because of how his texting pattern changed since the sex. I just don't understand why he would waste his time texting me for two weeks if he just wanted a one night stand. Thoughts?
What I don't get is that 3 weeks and several dates is quite an investment of time and effort...why do all that for a one-off? Trying to think like a guy here but if he can "get it" once why not keep them in the lineup for a few more weeks? Guys act like it's soooo hard to get sex but when they do, they burn through them on ONS. That seems like a very stupid waste of resources.
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