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Old 10-04-2015, 01:44 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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I guess so. I asked him if he could bring me adderal yesterday because I have 3 exams this week and his text said "Hey sorry I've been busy but I can come by later and give you the pills."

I don't know maybe I'm over reacting? I just don't think I want to have sex with again because I can see myself getting attached and not being okay with a casual relationship.
I think, you need to stop taking adderal, cause you're tripping, lol

What is he a drug dealer?
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Old 10-04-2015, 01:45 PM
 
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I think, you need to stop taking adderal, cause you're tripping, lol

What is he a drug dealer?
No, lol. He's in law school. He gets them from his best friend and said I could have some.
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Old 10-04-2015, 01:56 PM
 
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No, lol. He's in law school. He gets them from his best friend and said I could have some.
You are coming off as a mess. The last thing you need is drugs.....
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Old 10-04-2015, 01:57 PM
 
Location: Central IL
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I guess so. I asked him if he could bring me adderal yesterday because I have 3 exams this week and his text said "Hey sorry I've been busy but I can come by later and give you the pills."

I don't know maybe I'm over reacting? I just don't think I want to have sex with again because I can see myself getting attached and not being okay with a casual relationship.
You're ALREADY questioning yourself...and asking him for a favor...and a favor that requires him to come back to your place. That could seem like a very strong message to him and that you don't know your own mind? Sounds like you're already hooked in a couple ways.
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Old 10-04-2015, 01:59 PM
 
Location: Mars
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Why not just accept the sexual relationship? If you had sex with him once then he would be more than inclined to do it again.

Text him to come over and shag you if you really want to see him again.
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Old 10-04-2015, 02:01 PM
 
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You're ALREADY questioning yourself...and asking him for a favor...and a favor that requires him to come back to your place. That could seem like a very strong message to him and that you don't know your own mind? Sounds like you're already hooked in a couple ways.
Well he doesn't have to drop them off if he doesn't want to..

We talked about this even before we had sex so I don't think he's really looking into it that much.
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Old 10-04-2015, 02:03 PM
 
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Why not just accept the sexual relationship? If you had sex with him once then he would be more than inclined to do it again.

Text him to come over and shag you if you really want to see him again.
The thing is my pride and my ego like someone else mentioned in this thread. I'll never text a guy first to have sex or really for anything. So if he wants to see me he has to contact me and make the effort to drive to my house.
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Old 10-04-2015, 02:21 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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The thing is my pride and my ego like someone else mentioned in this thread. I'll never text a guy first to have sex or really for anything. So if he wants to see me he has to contact me and make the effort to drive to my house.
Ugh, ok, let's take things one at a time.

No pills. Just forget that. It's so stupid. It's just three exams. Everyone who's ever been in college has done that and more. You can do it without pills.

Next, if you don't want to do casual sex, don't. Just know that there's a lot of guys out there who ONLY want that. So don't be surprised if some of them do ghost on you.

Then ... in terms of "I never text first ...."

There's "having standards," which is fine, and then there's "making him jump through hoops," which is immature. If you have these unwritten rules that a guy would have to read your mind to understand, you're playing games, and that's not cool.

Decide what kind of person you want to be based on how you would want them to treat you.
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Old 10-04-2015, 02:25 PM
 
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No, lol. He's in law school. He gets them from his best friend and said I could have some.

So you pre paid for your illegal drugs with sex......
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Old 10-04-2015, 02:45 PM
 
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So you pre paid for your illegal drugs with sex......
Yep 10 minutes a pill
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