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Old 10-07-2015, 11:55 PM
 
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My girlfriend (21) started university in Munich, has been renting a room with a German family for 2 weeks. I (26) am coming from London to visit her over the weekend. She wants me to stay at her place, but has reservations about asking the German family. Is that reasonable?
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Old 10-08-2015, 04:52 AM
 
Location: a primitive state
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It might be an imposition for you to stay there, especially since the family doesn't know her well yet.

Find an inexpensive room somewhere and get to know her host family from a respectful distance. Eventually they will probably invite you to stay with them. Don't rush things.
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Old 10-08-2015, 05:19 AM
 
Location: NNJ
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If it were an apartment that was isolated from the rest of the family... yes... But in this case, probably not.

I know if I were the hosting family, probably not because I have small children in the house.
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Old 10-08-2015, 05:25 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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No. You will become THEIR guests even though THEY did not invite you.

Get a room.
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Old 10-08-2015, 06:08 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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I presume you would like to have sex while you are there. Get a room. I've heard great things about airbnb.
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