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What self respecting man would be a backup? Or what self respecting woman would be a backup for that matter? None. Of course, the person with a "Backup" is pretty self centered and selfish. If I ever found out someone I was dating had a backup, I'd end it.
What self respecting man would be a backup? Or what self respecting woman would be a backup for that matter? None. Of course, the person with a "Backup" is pretty self centered and selfish. If I ever found out someone I was dating had a backup, I'd end it.
It's been my experience that the "backup" rarely knows they're the backup.
It's been my experience that the "backup" rarely knows they're the backup.
I am sure you are right.
I guess the key to knowing if your girlfriend has a "backup" (or boyfriend) is that they will be a bit more distant, not really focused on you, and frankly, not really in love with you. I have to admit, it happened to me before (not sure if it was really a backup but I was left for someone as I've mentioned before very rich and very married). In retrospect there was distance, lack of focus, and that missing element that tells you the person is really into you (ti was there before but faded). I could easily recognize it now, at the time I couldn't though. Wish I could explain it better to people so others wouldn't fall into the trap I did.
absolutely nothing wrong with having a back up guy just incase your main relationship fails
So that is how you justify your serial cheating???
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